Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonPost by Matthew JohnsonPost by l***@hotmail.comHere's where the legalistic EOC rub comes in.
That isn't 'legalistic'. It is common decency.
Common decency does not set a strict standard as the OC's 40days.
Sure, it does.
Now which book of etiquette
Ah, here is your problem. After raising such a stink when others turn
outside the Bible for legitimate reasons, you yourself turn outside
the Bible, after claiming that it it wrong to do so!
Post by l***@hotmail.comso states that other than your own. And
how does this differ from say, the Westminster Confession of Faith?
What would that have to do with anything?
Post by l***@hotmail.comAgain, as per usual, you debate without reference.
So says the man who turns to bomtast & fallacies so quickly that he
repeatedly demonstrates he does not even know what 'debate' MEANS.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonThere is NO biblical foundation for this "law."
Yes, there is.
Chapter and verse, dear. I asked before and you have not
accomodated the request.
And I explained why. But you snipped the explanation with no rebuttal, not even
a comment.
So now I will not explain, I will merely repeat the conclusion you
failed to rebut: you have NO right to demand chapter and verse.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonTrue grieving comes from recognizing that there never was a true
confession of faith in Christ, therefore you will never again
share fellowship with that person, even if you yourself are
unregenerate.
No, Loren, this is completely unchristian. Your distinction between
'mourning' and 'grieving' is highly artificial.
Here you are again, revealing to all your cloistered experience.
Of course, we have it only on _your_ unreliable word that this
"reveals cloistered experience".
Post by l***@hotmail.comThere is clearly an experiential difference.
The use of such pretentious malapropisms as "experiential difference"
does not give weight to your argument, Loren.
Post by l***@hotmail.comIt is one thing to mourn the loss of a loved one but quite another to
grieve over it.
Not according to any dictionary _I_ would trust. So, for example,
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/mourn gives:
mourn:
1. To feel or express grief or sorrow. See Synonyms at grieve.
2. To show grief for a death by conventional signs, as by wearing black clothes.
3. To make a low, indistinct, mournful sound. Used especially of a dove.
So you see, already the dictionary has contradicted your overconfident
expression of abysmal ignorance. 'mourn' = 'grieve'. You would see the
same if you looked up 'grieve'.
Or will you claim that the dictionary authors have only "cloistered
experience" as well?
Post by l***@hotmail.comIf you don't know the difference then you need to come out of your
closet every now and then and live in the real world.
I have a good enough memory to remember how many have said the same to
you. And they with better justification. At least I did not try to
claim that the love of a child is "without value" as you did.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonDid David pray for his dead son?
Yes. Was it recorded in the historical books? No. Did it have to
be for it to be true. NO.
The biblical record is quite clear.
No, the biblical record says nothing about whether or not David prayed
for his dead son.
Post by l***@hotmail.comWhat you are now doing is trying to paint yourself out of the corner
you just painted yourself into. You are scheming to answer. You are
a deceiver of the record. So much for you and your highbrow
"exegesis!" Whereis it now?
What are you talking about? It is you who has painted himself into a
corner, not me. Why, you even confirm this by prating about 'exegesis'
here. I never _did_ claim to base my claim on _exegesis_. I claim to
base it on _hermeneutic_. I used to think you knew the difference, but
now you have shown I was wrong: you do not know what 'hermeneutic' is.
And how did you miss that you have painted yourself into a corner? Do
you really think that other readres have missed it as you did? For you
who demand a "Biblical mandate" are yourself doing and insisting on
things for which there can be no "Biblical mandate".
This means that it is you, not I, who has "painted himself into a
corner".
Post by l***@hotmail.comSuddenly you slink back into the shadows of the argument from
silence.
The "argument from silence" is NOT "The shadows". And for you to shout
out that I am "slinking" is _really_ rash wishful thinking.
Post by l***@hotmail.comDavid's record is clear.
No, it is not.
Post by l***@hotmail.comOnce the boy was dead, there was no point in petitioning God.
No, that is not what the record says.
The record doesn't say this either.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou have a problem with understanding death, don't you.
Hardly. You are just resorting to base, groundless accusations again
to cover up your failure to engage in honest debate.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou likewise refuse to acknowledge the fact that all are born dead in
their sins.
Post by Matthew JohnsonThe reality is "it is appointed unto man once to die THEN comes
judgment." No amount of prayer will change that verdict.
You miss the point. Prayer is commanded anyway.
Chapter and verse.
Again: you have no right to make this demand.
Post by l***@hotmail.comWhere is the great biblical debater now?
Trying to do my bragging for me, Loren? I always knew better than to
make this claim. You win no creidibility for yourself by trying to
make it for me -- especially in a tone so sarcastic it reveals your
bitterness.
Evidently "the great biblical debater" is not in this thread. For any
"great biblical debater" would have realized that this thread is in
SRC, not SRC.B-S. The topic is Christian _society_, NOT the Bible. So
it is perfectly within the Charter to base my argument on Tradition
rather than on Scripture alone as you pretend to do.
Post by l***@hotmail.comWhere is it written, "Thou shalt pray for the dead?" Where is it
even hinted at? And beyond this, what is the purpose for it?
So many questions, so little patience for listening to the answers!
The answer to the first is, in many places, most conspicuously in the
text of the Liturgy itself, in the prayer after the sanctification of
the Holy Gifts. As for where it is 'hinted' at, in the Tradition, it
is far more than 'hinted' at. In Scripture, it is hinted at in 2 Macc
12:46 and Mt 12:32 (and parallel passages).
But this is why I warned you not to ask when you lack the patience to
listen, and specifrically to admit that your hermeneutic is
broken. For as long as you rely on your broken hermeneutical
principles, you will find excuses to ignore the hints and explain them
away.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonTo do less than that for the departed is inhumane.
It doesn't involve humanity at that point.
Sure, it does. This is explained in _detail_ in the Kneeling Prayers
at Pentecost.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou have no answer to myquote, "It is appointed once to die and then
comes judgment."
Not true. See below.
Post by l***@hotmail.comNot much wiggle room there!
"Wiggle room" would be such an inaccurate term for the refutation of
your eisegesis.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonTo insist dogmatically that prayer for the departed is wrong, as
you do, is even more inhumane.
vain speculation.
No, it is not "vain speculation". It is the 2000 year old Christian
Tradition.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou present no biblical argument to support your case. Why is that?
Because that would be your methodology, not mine. I argue based on
Tradition, not Scripture alone. You know this. Why are you pretending
not to know?
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonBut of course, this is not the first time you have blindly
insisted, based on your own false dogmatic convictions, on doing
and teaching something inhumane.
Hey, don't turn the tables here.
Why not? That is all you have been trying to do since you started this
thread with its vicious attack on the entire Orthodox Church,
slandering us all as 'legalists'.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou are the one who has to defend a doctrine, not me.
No, you have to defend _your_ doctrine. You have to defend your
unreasonable claims that 1) such revelation has to be in
protocanonical Scripture alone ('sola scriptura') and 2) prayer for
the dead is wrong. But you never do. Instead, you turn to bombast and
false accusations, just as you have done in this thread. You do this
whenever it is pointed out to you that you are relying on eisegesis on
2 TIm 3:15-17 for your 'sola scriptura' error.
Post by l***@hotmail.comSlippery little fellow aren't you?
Not as slippery as you, since you have labored so hard to turn this
thread into one long ad hominem rather than face the facts.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonOh, no. You have a deeply ingrained tendency towards the inhumane,
as you revealed when you called the love of a child "completely
without value".
this entire paragraph was nothing less than flutter-tonguing.
No, it was not. How can that phrase of yours be anything _other_ than
inhumane, Loren? YOU may fool yourself into thinking it is
"flutter-tonguing", but precious few will follow you into your
delusion. The rest of us are revolted by your words:
Begin quote fm EX_Ua.8768$***@nwrdny02.gnilink.net------------
When your child curls in your lap and whispers, "I love you," you must
understand that that love is completely without value.
End quote--------------
THAT, Loren, is inhumane. It shows you _do_ sink to saying terribly
inhumane things.
No wonder not just I, but several other contributors to both these NGs
believe you worship an inhumane caricature of the Christian God.
After saying such words, you have no right to expect anything better.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonNo amount of prayer will lessen their torment or gain them greater
rewards.
This is not true.
Chapter and verse please.
Again: you have no right to make this demand. Not only for the reasons
I already stated, but also because the Typicon is NOT written in
"chapter and verse".
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonSo why pray for the dead?
Because what you said is not true. Because it is inhumane to refuse
to do it, just as it is inhumane to walk right past the wounded and
dying while doing nothing for them.
You know what your argumentation reminds me of?
What it reminds you of is quite irrelevant, since you have repeatedly
shown no ability to discriminate between logical argumentation and
bombast. That is why you repeatedly and habitually post bombast and
call it 'argumentation' or 'debate'.
[snip]
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonIt's over.
This is the answer of the pharasaical.
Heb. 9:27 And inasmuch as it is appointed for men to die once and
after this comes judgment,
Now is the author of Hebrews being pharasaical?
Of course not. You are. For you are demanding "Biblical mandate" from
me, but yourself are insisting on things that can have no "biblical
mandate".
Really, Loren. I am amazed that I have to point this out to you: the
verse says A happens after B, but it never says how _long_ after B A
happens.
Nor does it say that that judgment is the only judgment. On the
contrary: the Tradition has always distinguished between a "particular
judgment", which every Christian normally experiences within 40 days
of death, and the "general judgment" which takes place on the Last
Day. It is only after _this_ judgment that no change in state is
possible.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonThe life of faith only operates this side of the grave.
And in those who deny the duty of prayer for the deceased, the
"life of faith" does not even operate on this side of the grave.
Faith is always based in knowledge. There is no revelation given to
us from God that we are to pray either to or for those who have died.
Yes, there is. It is expressed in various places in the Tradition,
clarifying the very limited hints in Scripture itself.
Post by l***@hotmail.comThere is no scriptural passage for this
There does not have to be. Remember 2 Thess 2:15:
So then, brethren, stand firm and hold to the traditions which you
were taught by us, either by word of mouth or by letter. (2Th 2:15 RSVA)
I claim he taught this by word of mouth. It was not germane to ANY of
his Epistles, so it does not appear there.
Post by l***@hotmail.comexcept perhaps Saul's visitation to the witch of Endor to summon up
Samuel.
This was COMPLETELY different. Saul was not _praying_ for Samuel.
You aren't even _trying_ to engage in honest debate, are you?
[snip]
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonPost by Matthew JohnsonPost by l***@hotmail.comSo the poor girl not only has lost both her parents, but is now
being told by both familes, that they will not attend the
daughters wedding because it isn't proper to have such an event
within 40 days.
Ever hear of rescheduling? Why don't they
reschedule?
Apparently you live a cloistered life.
Now that is a cop-out. It is not even the cop-out I expected from
you.
It was an answer based upon reality.
No, it was an answer based on a _wordly_ notion of marriage, not a
Christian one.
ON the other hand saying as YOU said, that the love of a child is
"without value", now THAT is really a symptom of "living a cloistered
life". And in a very bad cloister, too.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou do not apparently have any experience in these things therefore
you cannot comprehend what you so blithely propose.
No, I do have experience. Some of the best marriages I have seen have
been between couples who avoided all the hoopla of fancy flower
arrangements, dresses and receptions, opting instead for a private
celebration among friends after the Church ceremony. They did not have
_any_ of these scheduling problems.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonI said 'easier', I didn't say 'easy'. But look at it this way: if
she had scheduled the wedding in an Orthodox Church, they would
have understood the need to reschedule. It is only because she
scheduled it with the heterodox that she has a problem.
The Church? You think that is all that needs to
be rescheduled?
That is all there is a "Biblical mandate" for. Have you forgotten that
it was you, not me, who insisted on a "Biblical mandate"? So you have
no right now to insist on her right to all the hoopla, NONE of which
has a "Biblical mandate".
Post by l***@hotmail.comWhat closet are you living in?
No, Loren, I am not "living in a closet". Rather, I have exposed you
for the hypocrite you are, insisting on all these trappings of a
worldly wedding when there is NO Biblical mandate for them. Yet you
are the one who always so loudly protests whenever others insist on
something without that mandate.
So it is your turn, not mine, to admit how wrong you are.
Post by l***@hotmail.comSNIP
Post by Matthew Johnson1) you are presuming this for you have no basis to support your
thesis
No, I already explained my basis. Rather than admit it, you simply
trumpet "you are presuming".
Ha! Ha! Ha! You are so funny!
No one will find your posts 'funny'. They will find them tragic instead.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou've explained nothing.
Not true. If you would read to the end of a post before replying, you
would have known better than to make such a rash and false
assertion. But you make the same mistake over and over.
Post by l***@hotmail.comBut that is totally beside the point. You have defended nothing as
well. Why is that Matthew. You are so strict with everyone else
having to provide this or than to prove a point. Yet here you have
done nothing except exert your own definition of "inhumane," and
"legalistic."
WHERE IS YOUR SCRIPTURAL SUPPORT?
Where is your unbroken hermeneutic? I already explained to you: as
long as you insist on the same broken hermeneutical principles you
have long displayed and _still_ display in this thread, you will not
recognize any 'proof' presented. You will always find excuses to
reject it.
Post by l***@hotmail.comHow do you know this?
From Prov 15:2.
Let me now answer as you
have done.
You haven't. Your imitation is very poor. Of _course_ you missed the
essential differentiae between your trash and my writing.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew Johnsonzeal for tossing accusations about, you have confused three
different notions: 1) being 'legalistic',
No. I have not.
Yes, you have.
Post by l***@hotmail.comNo. I am both well trained in its definition and
quite correct in it application.
No, you are not trained in it at all. I already explained in detail
why your 'application' is wrong, you have no rebuttal.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew Johnsonand 3) having/lacking scriptural support.
Action speak louder than words, Matthew.
Which is exactly why you should be hanging your head in shame after
making the posts you made in this thread, Loren.
Post by l***@hotmail.comShow us all just on verse that you have quoted or expounded upon to
support your position. Just one. Just one little verse.
And how did you answer when Sarah made the same request of you? Did
you give "just one little verse"? Or did you protest that it required
several verses, read together?
No, Loren, you did not. Instead, you explained why she was wrong to
ask for that. And you are just as wrong to ask for the same thing now.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonThere is NO WAY that being "purely legalistic and humanistic"
follows from lacking "scriptural support".
Then it is you who does not understand the term.
No, I do understand all of them. It is you who misunderstand them,
just as you misunderstood 'greive' and 'mourn' above.
Post by l***@hotmail.comYou are being humanistic in that the basis for your doctrine is
self-originating.
FIrst of all, my doctrine is not 'self-originating'. Secondly, even if
it were, that would not make it or me 'humanistic'.
Post by l***@hotmail.comIt is not Divinely originated
"Divinely originated"? Your pretentious, stilted expressions do not
give weight to your arguments, Loren. But I know what you really mean,
and you are wrong. Of _course_ it is of Divine origin. The revelations
to Sts. Macarius, Basil the Great and Gregory Nazianzen _all_ back me
up, and are _all_ of Divine origin, as shown by
http://pagez.ru/lsn/0264.php.
Post by l***@hotmail.comand ordained or it would be revealed to us in Scripture.
No, that does not follow, except from your eisegesis.
Post by l***@hotmail.comThis is an either/or situation.
So you love to proclaim. But again, that does not follow, except from
your eisegesis.
Post by l***@hotmail.comPost by Matthew JohnsonFor if there had been surely you would have presented it at the
outset.
Not at all. Rather, I know your pernicious habit of insisting on
thoroughly broken hermeneutical principles. And because I know this
pernicious habit of yours, I knew you would deny the basis.
You argue like a spoiled child.
So says the man who repeatedly resorts to base, groundless accusations
again to cover up your failure to engage in honest debate.
No, Loren, as Banjo pointed out when you called the love of a child
"without value", it is you who are blind. And to many in the NG, this
will be obvious, since saying such a thing about the love of a child
is _so_ outrageous.
Unfortunately, this is only one of the more prominent examples of your
blindness; it is far from alone.
Post by l***@hotmail.comI just read another rebuttal to one of your replies and they more or
less have arrived at the same conclusion.
This is not convincing, Loren. Unless, of course, you want to convince
people that you love making groundless personal attacks. Is that why
you could not be bothered to give a message-id for the post you claim
to have read?
Post by l***@hotmail.comStop tap dancing and give a biblical defense for prayer to or for the
dead.
But you are changing the topic. As long as you change the topic like
this, it is YOU, not I, who is engaging in "tap dancing".
And yes, you did change the topic. The topic was prayer FOR the dead
only. But here, you have changed to try to confuse the issue, talking
about prayer TO the dead as well.
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