shegeek72
2007-08-21 02:56:46 UTC
The Pope speaks of the "evil of homosexuality." Yet, I have not heard
exactly what those "evils" are? Could it be pedophilia? No. The
majority of pedophiles are married, heterosexual men and Catholic
priests. So, where is the evil?
There are evils in dictators, murderers, robbers, thieves, con
artists, etc, but what harm is there in a man loving another man and
vice-versa? Some have claimed the harm of incontinence resulting from
anal sex. Yet, no one has provided figures on how many gay males
suffer from this malady. Then there's the fact that heterosexuals have
anal sex and lesbians typically don't. All of the objections to
homosexuality I've read and heard talk about males, but practically
nothing about lesbians.
Indeed, even among those who find nothing wrong with homosexuality,
some are repulsed at the thought, or sight, of two men making love,
yet are not repulsed by two women having sex and many (particularly
males) find it erotic. This is probably due to the cultural norms that
allow women to be more intimate in public. Hardly anyone would be
bothered by two women walking arm-in-arm, yet two men doing the same
could draw second looks and sneers.
I think it's this repulsion, or objection to, men being intimate
that's a significant factor allowing people to so easily buy into
their belief that homosexuality is "wrong," without even the biblical
(mis)interpretations.
Then there are those who insist that without the breakdown of
heterosexual marriage, gays wouldn't be pushing for same-sex marriage.
As if gays have been waiting in the wings for hetero marriage to fall
apart. To those who've claimed this I've asked again and again for
some proof to this connection and none has presented a shred of
evidence.
They also claim that once gay marriage is "normalized" all sorts of
variations on marriage will appear, like bestial, pedophile marriage,
etc. Yet in the states and countries where gay marriage is allowed
none of this has taken place.
Instead of using so much energy in opposing gay marriage, religious
leaders and people should instead be addressing the dismal failure of
hetero marriage; that over half of all marriages end in separation and
divorce. Indeed, I think many religious groups are using their
opposition to gay marriage as a smoke screen to ignore the failure of
their own vaulted institution.
Perhaps, the next time you decry gay marriage, look in the mirror and
think, "Shouldn't I be addressing the failure of heterosexual marriage
first?"
--
Tara's Transgender Resources
http://tarasresources.net
Metropolitan Community Churches
http://www.mccchurch.org
exactly what those "evils" are? Could it be pedophilia? No. The
majority of pedophiles are married, heterosexual men and Catholic
priests. So, where is the evil?
There are evils in dictators, murderers, robbers, thieves, con
artists, etc, but what harm is there in a man loving another man and
vice-versa? Some have claimed the harm of incontinence resulting from
anal sex. Yet, no one has provided figures on how many gay males
suffer from this malady. Then there's the fact that heterosexuals have
anal sex and lesbians typically don't. All of the objections to
homosexuality I've read and heard talk about males, but practically
nothing about lesbians.
Indeed, even among those who find nothing wrong with homosexuality,
some are repulsed at the thought, or sight, of two men making love,
yet are not repulsed by two women having sex and many (particularly
males) find it erotic. This is probably due to the cultural norms that
allow women to be more intimate in public. Hardly anyone would be
bothered by two women walking arm-in-arm, yet two men doing the same
could draw second looks and sneers.
I think it's this repulsion, or objection to, men being intimate
that's a significant factor allowing people to so easily buy into
their belief that homosexuality is "wrong," without even the biblical
(mis)interpretations.
Then there are those who insist that without the breakdown of
heterosexual marriage, gays wouldn't be pushing for same-sex marriage.
As if gays have been waiting in the wings for hetero marriage to fall
apart. To those who've claimed this I've asked again and again for
some proof to this connection and none has presented a shred of
evidence.
They also claim that once gay marriage is "normalized" all sorts of
variations on marriage will appear, like bestial, pedophile marriage,
etc. Yet in the states and countries where gay marriage is allowed
none of this has taken place.
Instead of using so much energy in opposing gay marriage, religious
leaders and people should instead be addressing the dismal failure of
hetero marriage; that over half of all marriages end in separation and
divorce. Indeed, I think many religious groups are using their
opposition to gay marriage as a smoke screen to ignore the failure of
their own vaulted institution.
Perhaps, the next time you decry gay marriage, look in the mirror and
think, "Shouldn't I be addressing the failure of heterosexual marriage
first?"
--
Tara's Transgender Resources
http://tarasresources.net
Metropolitan Community Churches
http://www.mccchurch.org