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Report: Gay marriage benefits kids
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shegeek72
2006-08-04 01:25:16 UTC
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A report in the July 5 issue of Pediatrics, the journal of the Am.
Academy of Pediartics, shows legal recognition for same-gender partners
benefits their children.

The 16-page report, which includes a review of the growing body of
medical literature on same-gender parenting, concludes that "children
of same-gender parents often experience economic, legal and familial
insecurity as a result of the absense of legal recognition of their
bonds to non-biological parents" and that "legal recognition of a [same
gender] spouse can increase the ability of adult couples to provide and
care for one another and fosters a nurturing and secure environment for
their children." The 2000 census found that same-gender couples are
raising children in 96 percent of all US counties.

Dr. Ellen C. Perrin, director of developmental - behavioral pediatrics
and the Center for Children with Special Needs at the Floating Hospital
for Children Tufts - New England Medical Center and one of the authors
of the report said, "The scientific data overwhelmingly demonstrate
that there is no relationship between parents' sexual orientation and
any measure of children's emotional, psychosocial and behavioral
adjustment. We conclude that civil marriage is beneficial to children,
regardless of the gender of the parents, because it strengthens
families and helps foster financial and legal security, psychosocial
stability and an augmented sense of societal acceptance and support."

Just Out, July 21, 2006

Tara
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B.G. Kent
2006-08-07 02:26:24 UTC
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Thanks Tina,

I think that good people with good hearts benefit kids...married or
no...but yes I am a fan of allowing adults to marry other adults no matter
what the sexuality.

My gay friends were born of heterosexual parents....apparantly their
sexuality did not "rub off" on their children....funny that...

Blessings
Bren
shegeek72
2006-08-08 01:27:50 UTC
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Post by B.G. Kent
I think that good people with good hearts benefit kids...married or
no...but yes I am a fan of allowing adults to marry other adults no matter
what the sexuality.
Yes, there's no reason why same-gender couples should be denied
adoption, which just prevents children from being adopted and sustains
moving them from foster home to foster home waiting for a family.

The gay marriage issue, as I've pointed out before, is not a religious,
but a legal one. Legal marriage is a contract with various benefits
accorded to the participants, including - as the article pointed out -
children. Allowing one class of people the right to contract, while
denying it to another, is discriminatory and violates the equal
protection clause of the 14th amendment. Why groups who are fighting
anti-same-sex marriage statutes don't use the amendment is a mystery to
me. I'm in the process of contacting the ACLU to get their take on the
issue.
Post by B.G. Kent
My gay friends were born of heterosexual parents....apparantly their
sexuality did not "rub off" on their children....funny that...
*nod* On my website is the article: "The Heterosexual Agenda," which is
much more persuasive and conditioning than the misnomer "homosexual
agenda."

Tara
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Burkladies
2006-08-08 01:27:51 UTC
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Naturally! Because Christ tells us to love one another.
37And He said to him, " 'YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR
HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.'
38"This is the great and foremost commandment.
39"The second is like it, 'YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.'
40"On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets."
Matthew 22:37-40 (New American Standard Bible)
Christ did not need to discriminate or show biggotery because love
comes in many forms.

Blessed be, Lady
Post by shegeek72
A report in the July 5 issue of Pediatrics, the journal of the Am.
Academy of Pediartics, shows legal recognition for same-gender partners
benefits their children.
...
Post by shegeek72
Tara
Matthew Johnson
2006-08-09 03:42:04 UTC
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Post by Burkladies
Naturally! Because Christ tells us to love one another.
Of course He does. But part of that love is to hte sin, to hate it enough to
NEVER teach sin to others. But you saying 'naturally' to 'shegeek's disastrous
propoals, how can you claim to hate sin in this way?

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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-09 03:42:04 UTC
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Post by shegeek72
Post by B.G. Kent
I think that good people with good hearts benefit kids...married or
no...but yes I am a fan of allowing adults to marry other adults no matter
what the sexuality.
Yes, there's no reason why same-gender couples should be denied
adoption, which just prevents children from being adopted and sustains
moving them from foster home to foster home waiting for a family.
The gay marriage issue, as I've pointed out before, is not a religious,
but a legal one.
If you really believe this, then why are you posting in this NG? This is NOT a
forum for "legal issues".

So by your own admission, your posts are off-topic. How long do you think you
can get away with this before the Moderator clamps down?

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shegeek72
2006-08-10 03:26:43 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
If you really believe this, then why are you posting in this NG? This is NOT a
forum for "legal issues".
Because some Christians work against gay marriage / civil unions,
making the facetious claim that some how "redefining" marriage will
lead to the whole world going to hell. That's the same thing they said
years ago about inter-racial marriage, except gays are the target now.
Post by Matthew Johnson
So by your own admission, your posts are off-topic. How long do you think you
can get away with this before the Moderator clamps down?
The moderator has edited out several of my posts: some I've disagreed
with, some I agreed with. Obviously, as this post got through it's not
considered OT.

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Chris Smith
2006-08-10 03:26:45 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by shegeek72
The gay marriage issue, as I've pointed out before, is not a religious,
but a legal one.
If you really believe this, then why are you posting in this NG? This is NOT a
forum for "legal issues".
It makes perfect sense for Tara to post to s.r.c about gay marriage, and
explain why she thinks it is merely a legal issue. First of all, the
point is not so much that it is a legal issue -- which everyone knows --
but that she believes it's *not* a religious issue. Second of all, I
think people (at least me) are getting tired of the idea that supporting
equal rights for all people is an inappropriate discussion for religion.
Every major civil rights movement I'm aware of in history has been led
largely by religious leaders, and has appealed to the teachings of
religion on morality. Of *course* it's appropriate.
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Burkladies
2006-08-10 03:26:46 UTC
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But you saying 'naturally' to 'shegeek's disastrous
Post by Matthew Johnson
propoals, how can you claim to hate sin in this way?
27 Ye have heard that it was said, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
28 but I say unto you, that every one that looketh on a woman to lust
after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:27-28 (American Standard Version)
Is lust a sin in your heart?
Blessed be, Lady
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Burkladies
Naturally! Because Christ tells us to love one another.
Of course He does. But part of that love is to hte sin, to hate it enough to
NEVER teach sin to others. But you saying 'naturally' to 'shegeek's disastrous
propoals, how can you claim to hate sin in this way?
Matthew Johnson
2006-08-11 03:18:50 UTC
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Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by shegeek72
The gay marriage issue, as I've pointed out before, is not a religious,
but a legal one.
If you really believe this, then why are you posting in this NG?
This is NOT a forum for "legal issues".
It makes perfect sense for Tara to post to s.r.c about gay marriage,
So you say, yet nothing in your post below justifies this conclusion. See below.
Post by Chris Smith
and explain why she thinks it is merely a legal issue.
No. Legal issues re one thing, religious and sociological are another. They may
overlap at times, and when they do, _that_ is when they are on-topic for this
NG.

Also, despite his pretence, 'Tara' is not a 'she'. He has had extensive surgery
and hormonal treatments to hide his maleness and appear female.
Post by Chris Smith
First of all, the
point is not so much that it is a legal issue -- which everyone knows --
I would not assume that everyone 'knows' that.
Post by Chris Smith
but that she believes it's *not* a religious issue.
And that is why, according to his own belief, there is none of the
above-mentioned overlap, therefore (as he and you deny) it is off-topic for this
NG.
Post by Chris Smith
Second of all, I
think people (at least me) are getting tired of the idea that supporting
equal rights for all people is an inappropriate discussion for religion.
And how can you be "getting tired" of an idea that has been rarely expressed?
Post by Chris Smith
Every major civil rights movement I'm aware of in history has been led
largely by religious leaders,
Then think harder. Not only will you find that your generalization has important
exceptions, but you might even realize that the "religious leaders" who _did_
lead them were largely enemies of the Catholic faith, partisans of _pernicious_
heresies. That is _why_ the Roman Church _resisted_ these "religious leaders"
and their "civil rights movements" until the mid 19th century.
Post by Chris Smith
and has appealed to the teachings of
religion on morality. Of *course* it's appropriate.
No, there is no 'of course' here. When _is_ the last time you read the Charter
for this NG? Please pay attention to the key sentence:

this is a group for discussion of Christianity and issues related to it.

If, as 'Tara' believes, it is a _legal_ issue, and not at religious one, then
what is the relation to Christianity?

Now perhaps the real reason you feel it is appropriate is that you do NOT share
his premise: you really _do_ believe it is both religious and legal. But then
recall that I was not criticizing him for posting based on _your_ premise.
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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-11 03:18:50 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
But you saying 'naturally' to 'shegeek's disastrous
Post by Matthew Johnson
propoals, how can you claim to hate sin in this way?
28 but I say unto you, that every one that looketh on a woman to lust
after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:27-28 (American Standard Version)
Is lust a sin in your heart?
You are trying to distract from the real issue with an irrelevant question. The
real issue is that you are expressing approval of a disastrous sin by using the
word 'naturally' where you did. This kind of approval is _clearly_ condemned in
Scripture (Rom 1:32), it is NOT to be explained away with irrelevant references
to "sins in the heart".

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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-11 03:18:51 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
If you really believe this, then why are you posting in this NG?
This is NOT a forum for "legal issues".
Because some Christians work against gay marriage / civil unions,
making the facetious claim that some how "redefining" marriage will
lead to the whole world going to hell.
That is no reason at all.
Post by shegeek72
That's the same thing they
said years ago about inter-racial marriage,
This simply is not true. You are latching on to a superficial
appearance of similarity and exaggerating it beyond all proportion,
even into a monstruous _caricature_ of reality.

To give you one example of a significant difference that invalidates
your comparison, the Roman Church has _always_ defined marriage as
between one man and one woman, and has _never_ condemned inter-racial
marriage.
Post by shegeek72
except gays are the
target now.
This is absolute nonsense. See the counter-example above.
Post by shegeek72
Post by Matthew Johnson
So by your own admission, your posts are off-topic. How long do you
think you can get away with this before the Moderator clamps down?
The moderator has edited out several of my posts: some I've disagreed
with, some I agreed with. Obviously, as this post got through it's
not considered OT.
Obviously I do not share your faith in the infallibility of the
Moderator. He should, for example, have rejected this latest post of
yours for the use of the word 'facetious', which is worse than simply
a wrong word, it is a slur against an entire group you have no
interest in understanding. For the Charter _clearly_ says (under
criteria for rejecting postings):


postings that are primarily attacks on another group, indicating no
interest in understanding them.

It is obvious to me you have no interest in understanding those
Christians who stand up for the vestigial remnants of respect for
marriage in society. I don't know why it isn't obvious to the
Moderator.
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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-11 03:18:51 UTC
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Post by shegeek72
A report in the July 5 issue of Pediatrics, the journal of the Am.
Academy of Pediartics, shows legal recognition for same-gender
partners benefits their children.
Scripture warns us against seeing what we want to see, instead of
seeing what is really there (cf. Pro 14:6, 17:12, 15; Job 42:7). You,
on the other hand, have given us a vivid illustration of the error
that results when people ignore this warning.
Post by shegeek72
The 16-page report, which includes a review of the growing body of
medical literature on same-gender parenting, concludes that "children
of same-gender parents often experience economic, legal and familial
insecurity as a result of the absense of legal recognition of their
bonds to non-biological parents"
So how does this show you have ignored the warning? Because you
contradict yourself. For _here_ you say they proved "economic and
familial INSECURITY". Surely such 'insecurity' is an example of poor,
even harmfully poor emotional and/or psychosocial adjustment. Yet you
then immediately contradict yourself with:

[snip]
Post by shegeek72
overwhelmingly demonstrate that there is no relationship between
parents' sexual orientation and any measure of children's emotional,
psychosocial and behavioral adjustment.
Yes, this is a contradiction. For you yourself, by choosing the first
of your two misquotations, _showed_ what the relationship is, and you
showed it is harmful to the children. poor "emotional" or
"pscychosocial adjustment" IS harm.

But now here is where the warning from Scripture comes in: out of your
zeal for justifying wickedness and depravity, you have failed to see
that you have contadicted yourself. You saw only what you wanted to
see, and failed to see what is really there.

I would not be surprised if the researchers you quote are guilty of
the same class of error, despite their scientific credentials. After
all, the first abstract you quoted is trying to put the blame on
society for not accepting the unacceptable. But of course the real
blame lies on those who inflicted the children with the unacceptable
depravity they were inflicted with.

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b***@juno.com
2006-08-14 03:58:11 UTC
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Post by Chris Smith
but that she believes it's *not* a religious issue. Second of all, I
think people (at least me) are getting tired of the idea that supporting
equal rights for all people is an inappropriate discussion for religion.
But gay people already have the very same right as every one else.....
the right to marry someone of the OPPOSITE sex.

What they don't have, is the so-called right to "marry" someone of the
SAME sex. Because such a union would be, by definition, a non-marriage.

And why not? Simply becuase it is, and has always been, impossible to
"marry" someone unless they are of the opposite sex. Whatever else
marriage may be, it is not now nor ever shall be a union between two
people of the same-sex. I don't care how hard the liberals whine, just
because they wish to re-define marriage politically won't mean that
marriage will actually be what they want to arbitrarily re-define it
as.

Never in the history of the world, up until now, has anyone ever been
able to "marry" someone of the same sex.

As a side note, it should be mentioned that Francis Collins of the
Human Genome Project has mentioned that in scientific studies of
identical twins, if one twin is gay, there is only a twenty percent
chance that the other twin is gay. This demonstrates that gayness is
NOT hard-wired through genetics.

Also, Anne Heche turned straight after being a lesbian. Ergo, gay
people can change. Thus, there is no reason to re-define marriage in
order to legitimize their changeable sexual urges.

I like the way the Washington State Supreme Court worded it (I
paraphrase):

"The trouble with gay activists is that they believe marriage is just a
selfish arrangement to get your partner's medical benefits, when in
actuality marriage is an institution designed to be a safe environment
to give birth to and raise children."

Gay people want to have the medical benefits of marriage, without the
responsibility of bearing and raising children. They selfishly want for
themselves the percieved benefits of marriage, with none of the
responsibilities.

Marriage is the fundamental institution of society. Government has a
very strong interest in keeping this institution alive. Just allowing
any non-procreating gays to get married, is to reduce marriage into a
cheap transaction of medical and financial benefits.

Marriage has VERY LITTLE to do with the husband and wife, from the
standpoint of government. From a purely governmental standpoint, the
main purpose of marriage is to procreate new taxpayers.

That's why government must draw the line. It should not allow people to
get "married" why by definition cannot create new taxpayers. As for
sterile heterosexuals, there is no way to be certain ahead of time that
they are sterile, whereas gay people are trying to put the wrong tabs
into the wrong slots from sqare one, if you take my meaning.
Chris Smith
2006-08-14 03:58:16 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
this is a group for discussion of Christianity and issues related to it.
If, as 'Tara' believes, it is a _legal_ issue, and not at religious one, then
what is the relation to Christianity?
So expressing opposition to gay marriage is topical because it is
religious in nature, but the complementary position is not topical?
That's an interesting little quandary you've created there. One might
be drawn to notice how it only allows people to agree with you, and
excludes from the conversation those who disagree. That's a very
creative way to win an argument.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Now perhaps the real reason you feel it is appropriate is that you do NOT share
his premise: you really _do_ believe it is both religious and legal. But then
recall that I was not criticizing him for posting based on _your_ premise.
No, I think I agree with Tara here.

Anything that can properly be called "marriage" is necessarily a
religious matter. Unfortunately, though, people use the word
"marriage" improperly. Governments don't decide who can get married;
God does. God's decisions are communicated by scripture and traditions
of the Church, where they are proclaimed loudly and clearly for anyone
who seeks them out.

I do, though, believe in equal rights; and that's the core of the
problem. Christian faith calls us to support equality for all people.
(I'm still not sure what to say to your denial of civil rights
movements; I guess I just won't say anything at all.) Gay marriage is
not about marriage, but some legal status that is confusingly named
"marriage". If I were to declare my opposition to gay marriage as a
political issue, I'd have to either admit to being a hypocrit, or also
ask that the government enforce other conditions of marriage, such as:

(a) partners are not already married
(b) married couples remain open to the possibility of children
(c) married couples intend fidelity and permanency in their vows

All of those are necessary conditions of Christian marriage, on a par
with gender. Frankly, I just don't want the local judicial branch of
the government deciding whether people meet those criteria or not.
Therefore, I prefer to make a clean break and recognize that governments
aren't really talking about marriage, but rather about a contractual
arrangement with a confusing name.
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h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
2006-08-14 03:58:17 UTC
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Post by Chris Smith
Anything that can properly be called "marriage" is necessarily a
religious matter. Unfortunately, though, people use the word
"marriage" improperly. Governments don't decide who can get married;
God does. God's decisions are communicated by scripture and traditions
of the Church, where they are proclaimed loudly and clearly for anyone
who seeks them out.
I think this is oversimplified. Marriage is a Christian institution,
for Catholics, a sacrament. However it is also a human institution.
Thus Christians consider non-Christian marriages to be valid.

Scripture may be the arbiter for Christian marriage, but it's hard to
see how it could be for marriage outside the Christian faith. We may
have to live with differences in requirements. Not all marriages
are or will be Christian marriages. The Church will set the requirements
for those that are.
Burkladies
2006-08-14 03:58:19 UTC
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Matthew, please educate yourself before you spout more cock and bull.
Clearly you are trying to distract from the real issue with an
irrelevant question as usual.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Burkladies
28 but I say unto you, that every one that looketh on a woman to lust
after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:27-28 (American Standard Version) Matthew, is this your problem?
I
Romans 2:1 1 Wherefore thou art without excuse, O man, whosoever thou
art that judgest: for wherein thou judges another, thou condemnest
thyself; for thou that judgest dost practise the same things. or is
this your problem?

When you can answer a question, or two, then you may have a relevent
discussion with a post, naturally.
Blessed be, Lady
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Burkladies
But you saying 'naturally' to 'shegeek's disastrous
Post by Matthew Johnson
propoals, how can you claim to hate sin in this way?
28 but I say unto you, that every one that looketh on a woman to lust
after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:27-28 (American Standard Version)
Is lust a sin in your heart?
You are trying to distract from the real issue with an irrelevant
question. The real issue is that you are expressing approval of a
disastrous sin by using the word 'naturally' where you did. This
kind of approval is _clearly_ condemned in Scripture (Rom 1:32), it
is NOT to be explained away with irrelevant references to "sins in
the heart".
shegeek72
2006-08-14 03:58:21 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
To give you one example of a significant difference that invalidates
your comparison, the Roman Church has _always_ defined marriage as
between one man and one woman, and has _never_ condemned inter-racial
marriage.
Perhaps not Catholics, but some Christians claimed inter-racial
marriage would lead to the same things they think gay marriage will now
lead to, i.e. "incestual, bestial and group marriage."
Post by Matthew Johnson
Obviously I do not share your faith in the infallibility of the
Moderator.
And I don't share your faith in the infallibility of the Bible.
Post by Matthew Johnson
It is obvious to me you have no interest in understanding those
Christians who stand up for the vestigial remnants of respect for
marriage in society.
I do try to understand Christians. I read the Bible, attended church,
went to a Catholic school, discuss religion with Christians, read the
posts here and watch Christians actions in the media. I don't agree
with all Christians, nor you.

So your claim is false.

Tara
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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-15 00:18:35 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
To give you one example of a significant difference that invalidates
your comparison, the Roman Church has _always_ defined marriage as
between one man and one woman, and has _never_ condemned inter-racial
marriage.
Perhaps not Catholics, but some Christians claimed inter-racial
marriage would lead to the same things they think gay marriage will now
lead to, i.e. "incestual, bestial and group marriage."
Aha! So you _finally_ admit it! It is only SOME Christians. So now it
is you who is clearly resorting to the very "bad apple argument" you
accuse others of.

You had no right to make this accusation against conservative
Christians in general. You had no right to compare this inappropriate
ban on inter-racial marriage with the very appropriate ban on that
_perversion_ of marriage, the falsely called "gay marriage"
Post by shegeek72
Post by Matthew Johnson
Obviously I do not share your faith in the infallibility of the
Moderator.
And I don't share your faith in the infallibility of the Bible.
You are trying to distract from the topic at hand again. Aren't you?
And you even do it by confusing me with your other interlocutors! I
have said almost nothing to you about my beliefs concerning
'infallibility of the Bible'.
Post by shegeek72
Post by Matthew Johnson
It is obvious to me you have no interest in understanding those
Christians who stand up for the vestigial remnants of respect for
marriage in society.
I do try to understand Christians.
No, you do not. On the contrary: the indecent haste with which you
slur all Christians with accusations of hypocrisy, with accusations of
condemning inter-racial marriage etc. shows that you have NO interest
in understanding us.

IOW: any "interest in understanding" that is consistent with such a
habit of slander is NOT worthy of the name, "interest in
understanding".
Post by shegeek72
I read the Bible,
Is that past tense or present?
Post by shegeek72
attended church, went to a Catholic school, discuss religion with
Christians, read the posts here and watch Christians actions in the
media.
NONE of these things are good evidence of trying to understand us. On
the contrary: it is far too common to do all these things without
_any_ serious effort at understanding.
Post by shegeek72
I don't agree with all Christians,
It is funny you would even mention that, since there is so little that
_all_ Christians would agree on. Unless you take an unusually narrow
defintion of 'Christian'.

Now taking an unusually narrow definition is not necessarily a bad
thing. But it is already obvious that you do not do this.
Post by shegeek72
nor you.
Clearly!
Post by shegeek72
So your claim is false.
No, that does not follow. Not by a long shot. BTW: do you even
remember what claim you are disputing?
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B.G. Kent
2006-08-15 00:18:37 UTC
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Post by b***@juno.com
Also, Anne Heche turned straight after being a lesbian. Ergo, gay
people can change. Thus, there is no reason to re-define marriage in
order to legitimize their changeable sexual urges.
B - Bimms..get off it. Anne Hache is bisexual. She did not "turned
straight" after "being a lesbian."

I believe that gay adults should be able to marry other gay adults of the
same sex. They use to think that woman were owned by their fathers and
brothers..that women could not vote...that changed...time to change other
outdated things too.
Many many people marry without physically having children...or they adopt.
There is nothing wrong with gay persons doing this too. No one "catches
gay".


I.M.O
Bren
Matthew Johnson
2006-08-15 00:18:38 UTC
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Post by Burkladies
Matthew, please educate yourself before you spout more cock and bull.
I'm not the one "spouting cock and bull" here. And I am already far
more educated than anyone who could sink to posting nonsense about the
Holy Spirit being a 'mother'.

The _educated_ know better than to say such things.

[snip]
Post by Burkladies
When you can answer a question, or two, then you may have a relevent
discussion with a post, naturally.
Here you show your inability to read. I answer questions all the
time. It is only the impertinent questions that go unanswered.

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Subducat se sibi ut haereat Deo
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B.G. Kent
2006-08-15 00:18:38 UTC
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Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
I think this is oversimplified. Marriage is a Christian institution,
for Catholics, a sacrament. However it is also a human institution.
??? I hope that the Hindus,Jews,Muslims know this.

Heh...

Bren
Matthew Johnson
2006-08-15 00:18:39 UTC
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Post by Chris Smith
Anything that can properly be called "marriage" is necessarily a
religious matter. Unfortunately, though, people use the word
"marriage" improperly. Governments don't decide who can get married;
God does. God's decisions are communicated by scripture and traditions
of the Church, where they are proclaimed loudly and clearly for anyone
who seeks them out.
I think this is oversimplified.
Well, yes it is.
Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
Marriage is a Christian institution,
_Christian_ marriage is.
Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
for Catholics, a sacrament.
Not just for Catholics; for _all_ Christians until Luther. That is, it is still
considered a sacrament among Nestorians and Monophysites (sometimes called
'non-chalcedonian Orthodox') and, of course, the Orthodox, in addition to among
Catholics.
Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
However it is also a human institution.
Thus Christians consider non-Christian marriages to be valid.
This is oversimplified, too. When a non-christian becomes Christian, or even
when a Christian who has been non-practicing for years returns to the Church,
s/he is expected to replace his/her civil union with a Church marriage. The sole
exception is the case of an unwilling (and still not Christian) spouse.
Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
Scripture may be the arbiter for Christian marriage, but it's hard to
see how it could be for marriage outside the Christian faith.
Yet under Roman Law, Christian ideas had great influence on civil marriage as
well. US and English Law inherited this influence, to at least a small degree.
But such a notion as the so-called "gay marriage" promises to erase even that
small degree, which has a _lot_ of people upset.
Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
We may have to live with differences in requirements.
We have been doing this for a long time. We still do. But some proposed
differences are just too great. The consequences of accepting them can only be
disastrous, even if we cannot predict just what they will be.

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Subducat se sibi ut haereat Deo
Quidquid boni habet tribuat illi a quo factus est
(Sanctus Aurelius Augustinus, Ser. 96)
Matthew Johnson
2006-08-15 00:18:39 UTC
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Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
this is a group for discussion of Christianity and issues related to it.
If, as 'Tara' believes, it is a _legal_ issue, and not at religious one, then
what is the relation to Christianity?
So expressing opposition to gay marriage is topical because it is
religious in nature, but the complementary position is not topical?
That's an interesting little quandary you've created there. One
might be drawn to notice how it only allows people to agree with you,
and excludes from the conversation those who disagree. That's a very
creative way to win an argument.
Nice to see someone recognizes my creativity;) Pity it is still on the
basis of a confused understanding of what I said.

In particular, I am disappointed, Chris, seeing how much trouble you
have reading what I wrote. I did NOT say that the "complementary
position is not topical". By no means! What I said was that _given_
the premise 'shegeek' expressed, it is not topical.

But this is not the same at all. Not by a long shot. WHY are you
having so much trouble understanding this?
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Now perhaps the real reason you feel it is appropriate is that you
do NOT share his premise: you really _do_ believe it is both
religious and legal. But then recall that I was not criticizing him
for posting based on _your_ premise.
No, I think I agree with Tara here.
Anything that can properly be called "marriage" is necessarily a
religious matter.
Hardly.
Post by Chris Smith
Unfortunately, though, people use the word "marriage" improperly.
Do they? I think it is you who is misusing it. What is more, I would
even go so far as to say that you CANNOT back up your position based
on the RCCC. So why are you even taking this position?
Post by Chris Smith
Governments don't decide who can get married;
Sure, they do. Will the Roman Church bless a marriage that is
forbidden by the laws of the state having jurisdiction? Not all
Churches will do this.
Post by Chris Smith
God does. God's decisions are communicated by scripture and
traditions of the Church,
As the moderator pointed out, this is an oversimplification. No wonder
you are confused.

So, for example, God's decisions are not communicated _just_ by them!
Take into consideration what Paul says about the authority of the
state:

LET EVERY SOUL BE IN SUBJECTION TO THE HIGHER POWERS: FOR THERE IS
NO POWER BUT OF GOD; AND THE POWERS THAT BE ARE ORDAINED OF
GOD. Therefore he that resisteth the power, withstandeth the
ordinance of God: and they that withstand shall receive to
themselves judgment. For rulers are not a terror to the good work,
but to the evil. And wouldest thou have no fear of the power? do
that which is good, and thou shalt have praise from the same: for he
is a minister of God to thee for good. But if thou do that which is
evil, be afraid; for he beareth not the sword in vain: for HE IS A
MINISTER OF GOD, an avenger for wrath to him that doeth evil. (Rom
13:1-4 RV)

[capitalization mine]

So if the state decides that people with HIV infections cannot get
married, then the Church is bound by Rom 13:1-4 to abide by that
decision.
Post by Chris Smith
where they are proclaimed loudly and clearly for anyone who seeks
them out.
And in the verses I quote above, obedience to the civil authorities is
loudly and cleraly proclaimed: it does NOT proclaim obedience only to
just laws and commands.
Post by Chris Smith
I do, though, believe in equal rights; and that's the core of the
problem. Christian faith calls us to support equality for all people.
No, it does not. But I did not want to go into detail on this in this
thread. So I will only mention the first verse of the above quote,
'subjection to _higher_ powers'; clearly this does _not_ predicate
'equality'.
Post by Chris Smith
(I'm still not sure what to say to your denial of civil rights
movements; I guess I just won't say anything at all.) Gay marriage
is not about marriage, but some legal status that is confusingly
named "marriage". If I were to declare my opposition to gay marriage
as a political issue, I'd have to either admit to being a hypocrit,
or also ask that the government enforce other conditions of marriage,
(a) partners are not already married
(b) married couples remain open to the possibility of children
(c) married couples intend fidelity and permanency in their vows
But you _can_ ask that the government enforce these conditions! Just
be prepared to take 'no' for an answer;) And historically, many
governments _did_ enforce at least a&b. c was always a toughie, so
less effort was taken to enforce that.
Post by Chris Smith
All of those are necessary conditions of Christian marriage, on a par
with gender.
But Christians are under no obligation to expect that the necessary
conditions of a civil marriage coincide _completely_ with those of a
Christian marriage. That is NOT the Tradition; the Tradition is to
work with the state to make civil marriage more humane, which means to
narrow the gap between civil and Church marriage. This is _exactly_
what the Roman Emperors did when reforming marriage and divorce law
starting under Justinian I. This is what the Russian Tsars did at
least occasionally, under, for example. Vladimir Monomakh.

I am sure that Western kings acted similarly, if not consistently
so. It is only republican legislatures that consistenly deviated from
this commendable behavior.
Post by Chris Smith
Frankly, I just don't want the local judicial branch of the
government deciding whether people meet those criteria or not.
Therefore, I prefer to make a clean break and recognize that
governments aren't really talking about marriage, but rather about a
contractual arrangement with a confusing name.
But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract! This is why I am
surpise that you take this position.
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zach
2006-08-15 00:18:41 UTC
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Post by Burkladies
Matthew, please educate yourself before you spout more cock and bull.
Clearly you are trying to distract from the real issue with an
irrelevant question as usual.
Post by Burkladies
28 but I say unto you, that every one that looketh on a woman to lust
after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:27-28 (American Standard Version) Matthew, is this your problem?
I
Romans 2:1 1 Wherefore thou art without excuse, O man, whosoever thou
art that judgest: for wherein thou judges another, thou condemnest
thyself; for thou that judgest dost practise the same things. or is
this your problem?
This reverse-judgement attack is interesting. It assumes that what you
do is _also_ sinful. Yet you do not think so. Whatever the case may be,
I doubt he (or I) hold pride in the fact of our sin. We certainly don't
spout off in public, telling others not to judge us, and that we can go
our merry way continuing in it. To the very public hypocrites such as a
few well-known televangelists, well, their sins saw the light of day,
so they got what was coming to them.
Chris Smith
2006-08-16 03:16:34 UTC
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Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
Post by Chris Smith
Anything that can properly be called "marriage" is necessarily a
religious matter. Unfortunately, though, people use the word
"marriage" improperly. Governments don't decide who can get married;
God does. God's decisions are communicated by scripture and traditions
of the Church, where they are proclaimed loudly and clearly for anyone
who seeks them out.
I think this is oversimplified. Marriage is a Christian institution,
for Catholics, a sacrament. However it is also a human institution.
Thus Christians consider non-Christian marriages to be valid.
I don't think it's oversimplified, though certainly more could be said
about it. Nonetheless, it is consistent with the teachings of the
Catholic Church, and with my own beliefs, that true marriage gains its
meaning from God. There is no accompanying requirement that those being
married are Christians, nor that they recognize the religious
significance of what they are doing. It's also not always the case that
marriage is a sacrament (for example, when one or both partners are not
baptized). Nevertheless, marriage is always religious in nature.

That I believe this ought to be self-evident from my writing it. That
this is the position of the Catholic Church is also easily seen. The
Church explains its teachings on valid marriage by first listing the
requirements for marriage itself (valid consent, openness to children,
intention of fidelity, restrictions on incest, etc.); and then by
listing separately the requirements that only apply to Catholics
(marriage in a church or with ecclesial consent, dispensations for mixed
marriage and disparity of cult, etc.). Many declarations of nullity are
granted due to marriages that are not considered valid due to the first
set of conditions, even if the partners were not members of the Church
at the time.

Of course, non-Catholics are free to ignore all of these requirements,
and they often do. The requirements as stated by the Catholic Church
mostly become relevant when someone becomes a Catholic and begins
examining things from a Catholic standpoint. However, many of the
(general) requirements as stated by the Catholic Church are also in
agreement with other faith traditions. I have trouble believing that
all of those other traditions believe that marriages between non-
Christians are valid without regard to the details of the situation.
--
Chris Smith
Emma Pease
2006-08-16 03:16:34 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
LET EVERY SOUL BE IN SUBJECTION TO THE HIGHER POWERS: FOR THERE IS
NO POWER BUT OF GOD; AND THE POWERS THAT BE ARE ORDAINED OF
GOD. Therefore he that resisteth the power, withstandeth the
ordinance of God: and they that withstand shall receive to
themselves judgment. For rulers are not a terror to the good work,
but to the evil. And wouldest thou have no fear of the power? do
that which is good, and thou shalt have praise from the same: for he
is a minister of God to thee for good. But if thou do that which is
evil, be afraid; for he beareth not the sword in vain: for HE IS A
MINISTER OF GOD, an avenger for wrath to him that doeth evil. (Rom
13:1-4 RV)
[capitalization mine]
So if the state decides that people with HIV infections cannot get
married, then the Church is bound by Rom 13:1-4 to abide by that
decision.
Yet I believe the early church recognized marriages between male
slaves and free women. A type of marriage that was forbidden by Roman
law. Also I don't believe slaves in the American south had legally
recognized marriages, were they therefore living in sin in the eyes of
the church unless celibate; did the churches they attended refuse to
perform any ceremony?

As far as the government is concerned in the US, marriage is purely a
civil contract. A couple can choose to have the civil marriage in a
church as part of a religious ceremony but they can also choose a
purely civil marriage. As far as the government is concerned there is
no difference in the resulting marriage.

What a church recognizes as a marriage can be quite different. The
Catholic church doesn't recognize second civil marriages of divorced
Catholics unless preceded by a religious annulment (it might be
interesting to know what the church's view is of a couple that get a
religious annulment and then discover that the earlier civil divorce
wasn't valid [e.g., they are still married in the eyes of the state]).

No one is suggesting any government interference in who a particular
church decides to _not_ marry since among other reasons a couple in the
US always has the choice of a purely civil marriage.

Emma
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shegeek72
2006-08-16 03:16:35 UTC
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Post by b***@juno.com
But gay people already have the very same right as every one else.....
the right to marry someone of the OPPOSITE sex.
This statement is ludicrous, but is typical of the "searching for
straws" of some Christians.
Post by b***@juno.com
Never in the history of the world, up until now, has anyone ever been
able to "marry" someone of the same sex.
Untrue. There were gay marriages in England sanctioned by the church. I
don't remember the time period offhand, but could find out with a bit
of research. And besides, just because it was usually between opposite
sexes doesn't prevent it from being accorded to same sexes. Tradition
is a poor reason to deny equal rights.
Post by b***@juno.com
As a side note, it should be mentioned that Francis Collins of the
Human Genome Project has mentioned that in scientific studies of
identical twins, if one twin is gay, there is only a twenty percent
chance that the other twin is gay. This demonstrates that gayness is
NOT hard-wired through genetics.
The Am. Psychological Assoc. has determined that homosexuality has
genetic causes. But the point is being gay is like having blue eyes,
not matter what the cause it can't be changed. Anyone who thinks it can
is living in a dream world.
Post by b***@juno.com
"The trouble with gay activists is that they believe marriage is
just a
Post by b***@juno.com
selfish arrangement to get your partner's medical benefits, when in
actuality marriage is an institution designed to be a safe environment
to give birth to and raise children."
And if a gay couple wants to adopt, or have children via artificial
insemination? As shown by the article I posted, bans against gay
marriage hurt children, so anyone who opposes same-sex marriage is
contributing to the harming of children. Not very Christian behavior.

There are also many other rights granted to married couples like
inheritance, hospital rights, tax benefits, etc.
Post by b***@juno.com
Gay people want to have the medical benefits of marriage, without the
responsibility of bearing and raising children. They selfishly want for
themselves the percieved benefits of marriage, with none of the
responsibilities.
Not true, as I stated in the previous answer. And there are some hetero
couples who don't want children. Should they be banned from from
marriage?
Post by b***@juno.com
Marriage has VERY LITTLE to do with the husband and wife, from the
standpoint of government. From a purely governmental standpoint, the
main purpose of marriage is to procreate new taxpayers.
That may have been true (though it sounds ludicrous to me) in the early
times of America when children were needed to work the fields, coal
mines, etc. Now it's not needed, as we're seeing the results of
over-population here and around the world.
Post by b***@juno.com
That's why government must draw the line. It should not allow people to
get "married" why by definition cannot create new taxpayers.
Though this is OT (you brought it up): our current income tax is
illegal as declared by the Supreme Court in the 1916 case of
Brushaerber v. Union Pacific R.R. Think about that the next time you
get your paycheck and 40% is gone to the govt.

Tara
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Chris Smith
2006-08-16 03:16:38 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
In particular, I am disappointed, Chris, seeing how much trouble you
have reading what I wrote. I did NOT say that the "complementary
position is not topical". By no means! What I said was that _given_
the premise 'shegeek' expressed, it is not topical.
But this is not the same at all. Not by a long shot.
How so? I'm still not seeing a difference. Please provide an example
of how someone can disagree with the proposition that marriage is
religious in nature, and say so, but still be considered topical by your
standards. Or don't, since this isn't the interesting part of the
discussion.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Unfortunately, though, people use the word "marriage" improperly.
Do they? I think it is you who is misusing it. What is more, I would
even go so far as to say that you CANNOT back up your position based
on the RCCC. So why are you even taking this position?
I'm taking this position because it's what I believe. Furthermore, I
don't believe it is contrary to teachings of the Catholic Church. The
Church certainly teaches that being married in the eyes of legal
authority as different from true marriage. Declarations of nullity are
frequently denied to applicants who are civilly divorced. They are
frequently granted to applicants who remain under civil marriage.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Governments don't decide who can get married;
Sure, they do. Will the Roman Church bless a marriage that is
forbidden by the laws of the state having jurisdiction?
Yes, in extreme circumstances. When the laws of the local jurisdiction
are just, the Church expects that married couples will become legally
married. However, when local laws are not just, the Church will marry
couples who do not enter into a legal arrangement. This happened
frequently in the United States, for example, when interracial marriage
was not legally recognized. It still happens in some parts of the world
where there are restrictions on marriage due to race, political status,
or economic or social class. If the Church considers these restrictions
to be invalid, then a Bishop will waive the requirement that a marriage
be legally recognized; and if the problem is epidemic in nature, then
Bishops can waive the requirement on a standing basis.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Not all Churches will do this.
If a particular church would refuse this in one of the above situations,
I consider that very sad.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Take into consideration what Paul says about the authority of the
LET EVERY SOUL BE IN SUBJECTION TO THE HIGHER POWERS: FOR THERE IS
NO POWER BUT OF GOD; AND THE POWERS THAT BE ARE ORDAINED OF
GOD. [...]
Paul doesn't say what you represent Paul as saying. Nowhere in this
section of scripture, even if one reads beyond what you quoted, does
Paul say that Christians are to obey temporal authorities in all things.
Rather, he says that Christians should remain subject to authorities.
If I had suggested that we overthrow the government and establish a
Christian theocracy with laws that better represent our faith, then
Paul's comments here would be quite relevant. Paul also states that
Christians owe to authorities respect, honor, and taxes. He never says
unquestioning obedience.

It's a good thing, too. You seem to read into Paul's letter a commend
to obey. I wonder if you believe, on this basis, that all acts of civil
disobedience are wrong. Do you wish that Martin Luther King has just
kept his mouth shut? That Ghandi had just been a good British subject?
I find it hard to agree with those statements, and thus hard to agree
with blindly applying this interpretation of Paul without considering
the moral circumstances. Certainly first-century Christians didn't
interpret this statement of Paul's as absolute, for they continued to
worship God, even when they were forbidden by law from doing so.
Post by Matthew Johnson
So if the state decides that people with HIV infections cannot get
married, then the Church is bound by Rom 13:1-4 to abide by that
decision.
No, the Church quite clearly is not. I wonder whether you'd still agree
if I substituted a different disease or condition there. Say, cancer?
Attention deficit disorder?
Post by Matthew Johnson
And in the verses I quote above, obedience to the civil authorities is
loudly and cleraly proclaimed: it does NOT proclaim obedience only to
just laws and commands.
Read again. Where does it say obey?
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
If I were to declare my opposition to gay marriage
as a political issue, I'd have to either admit to being a hypocrit,
or also ask that the government enforce other conditions of marriage,
(a) partners are not already married
(b) married couples remain open to the possibility of children
(c) married couples intend fidelity and permanency in their vows
But you _can_ ask that the government enforce these conditions! Just
be prepared to take 'no' for an answer;)
But I really don't want it to happen! I do not consider it to be sound
policy that I should be required to prove to the government that I'm
okay with having kids before I can get married.
Post by Matthew Johnson
But Christians are under no obligation to expect that the necessary
conditions of a civil marriage coincide _completely_ with those of a
Christian marriage.
No, we certainly agree there. We have neither the obligation nor the
right to expect this.
Post by Matthew Johnson
That is NOT the Tradition; the Tradition is to
work with the state to make civil marriage more humane, which means to
narrow the gap between civil and Church marriage.
I don't see a justification for this one, either. You've pointed out
that it has historically happened, but I haven't heard why you think it
ought to happen.
Post by Matthew Johnson
But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract! This is why I am
surpise that you take this position.
I believe you are misinterpreting the catechism, given there are clearly
defined circumstances under which it is possible to be in either
situation (true marriage, and civil marriage) without the other. Where
in the catechism (I assume you mean the CCC, rather than the Baltimore
or something like that) is the statement you're looking at?
--
Chris Smith
Matthew Johnson
2006-08-17 03:23:28 UTC
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Post by h***@geneva.rutgers.edu
Post by Chris Smith
Anything that can properly be called "marriage" is necessarily a
religious matter. Unfortunately, though, people use the word
"marriage" improperly. Governments don't decide who can get married;
God does. God's decisions are communicated by scripture and traditions
of the Church, where they are proclaimed loudly and clearly for anyone
who seeks them out.
I think this is oversimplified. Marriage is a Christian institution,
for Catholics, a sacrament. However it is also a human institution.
Thus Christians consider non-Christian marriages to be valid.
I don't think it's oversimplified,
Take the hint, Chris. Charles told you it was oversimplified, and so did I. When
two independent thinking persons tell person A that something is
'oversimplified', and person B denies it, the -usual- reason for denial is
person A's pride. But even if the reason is something else, then additional
clarification is _certainly_ called for.
Post by Chris Smith
though certainly more could be said
about it.
And I say "additional clarification" rather than "more could be said", because
your "more could be said" is not specific enough; what is said must have
_clarifying_ force.

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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-17 03:23:30 UTC
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Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
In particular, I am disappointed, Chris, seeing how much trouble
you have reading what I wrote. I did NOT say that the
"complementary position is not topical". By no means! What I said
was that _given_ the premise 'shegeek' expressed, it is not
topical.
But this is not the same at all. Not by a long shot.
How so? I'm still not seeing a difference.
That does not reflect well on your cognitive abilities.
Post by Chris Smith
Please provide an example of how someone can disagree with the
proposition that marriage is religious in nature, and say so, but
still be considered topical by your standards.
You are still asking the wrong question. This does not reflect well on
your cognitive abilities either. Nor does it reflect well on your
knowledge of your own Catholic Faith, since you are making a ver
lementary logic error, the kind any Thomist would be ashamed to make.

Your error of elementary logic is confusing the statements "(A=>B is
true) is topical" and "(B is true) is topical". But they are two
different statements. One can be topical and the other not.

Until you recognize this error of yours, repeating the example would
do no good. For you already _have_ the example you _should_ have asked
for, and have yet to recognize it, or take it into account.
Post by Chris Smith
Or don't, since this isn't the interesting part of the discussion.
It might be, as you say, not an 'interesting' part, but until you
learn how to stop confusing yourself with such fallacies, you cannot
profitably proceed to the "interesting part".
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Unfortunately, though, people use the word "marriage" improperly.
Do they? I think it is you who is misusing it. What is more, I
would even go so far as to say that you CANNOT back up your
position based on the RCCC. So why are you even taking this
position?
I'm taking this position because it's what I believe.
That is not an answer. It is only an evasion. It is not even a
particularly good evasion.
Post by Chris Smith
Furthermore, I don't believe it is contrary to teachings of the
Catholic Church.
This too is largely evasion: so _what_ if you "don't believe it is
contrary"? What I am asking about is WHY you don't believe it is
contrary.
Post by Chris Smith
The Church certainly teaches that being married in the eyes of legal
authority as different from true marriage.
No, it teaches that it is different from _Christian_ marriage: but the
marriage of natural law is no less real and 'true'. It is just that
Christians are called to more than the natural law notion.
Post by Chris Smith
Declarations of nullity are frequently denied to applicants who are
civilly divorced.
But not _always_ denied. You are silent about the relevant
differentiae. This too, sounds like an attempt at sly evasion.
Post by Chris Smith
They are frequently granted to applicants who remain under civil
marriage.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Governments don't decide who can get married;
Sure, they do. Will the Roman Church bless a marriage that is
forbidden by the laws of the state having jurisdiction?
Yes, in extreme circumstances.
But, as you finally admit, only under _extreme_ circustances. Under
normal circumstances, the Roman Church will not bless a marriage
forbidden by the laws of the relevant state. So you were wrong when you
said "governments don't decide".
Post by Chris Smith
When the laws of the local jurisdiction are just, the Church expects
that married couples will become legally married. However, when
local laws are not just, the Church will marry couples who do not
enter into a legal arrangement.
And how do they justify this given Romans 13 (as I cited in my
previous post)? Paul did NOT say to obey the authorities only when they
order what is just; he said to obey. It looks pretty nearly
unconditional.
Post by Chris Smith
This happened frequently in the United States, for example, when
interracial marriage was not legally recognized. It still happens in
some parts of the world where there are restrictions on marriage due
to race, political status, or economic or social class. If the
Church considers these restrictions to be invalid, then a Bishop will
waive the requirement that a marriage be legally recognized; and if
the problem is epidemic in nature, then Bishops can waive the
requirement on a standing basis.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Not all Churches will do this.
If a particular church would refuse this in one of the above
situations, I consider that very sad.
But you have no right to do this; for at least _some_ of those
churches are being faithful to Paul's teaching.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Take into consideration what Paul says about the authority of the
LET EVERY SOUL BE IN SUBJECTION TO THE HIGHER POWERS: FOR THERE
IS NO POWER BUT OF GOD; AND THE POWERS THAT BE ARE ORDAINED OF
GOD. [...]
Paul doesn't say what you represent Paul as saying.
Yes, he does. You are not admitting the implications of
'subjection'. Perhaps you are confused by the English translation. In
the above RV quote, 'subjection' translates UPOTASSW (G5293), which
means "subordinate; OBEY, be under obedience to (in middle voice, as
here)".
Post by Chris Smith
Nowhere in this section of scripture, even if one reads beyond what
you quoted, does Paul say that Christians are to obey temporal
authorities in all things.
How can you say that? Your own commentary on these verses reads as if
you haven't read past the first verse.

After all, one might be excused for downplaying the unconditional form
of the statement in Rom 13:1. But how can you miss the even more
clearly unconditional form of the warning in the very next verse?
Recall it reads:

Therefore he that resisteth the power, withstandeth the ordinance
of God: and they that withstand shall receive to themselves
judgment. (Rom 13:2 RV)

This really does mean ANYONE who resists the power (better: authority)
is opposing God. Bad idea.

Furthermore, the father of Latin theology seems to agree with me. For
he says:

6. Haec attendite, et erudimini omnes qui iudicatis terram.
Omnes scilicet, quia etiam sic intellegendum est de quibus
Apostolus dicit: Omnis anima potestatibus sublimioribus subdita
sit. Non est enim potestas, nisi a Deo. Quae autem a Deo sunt,
ordinata sunt. Qui resistit potestati, Dei ordinationi resistit.
Principes enim non sunt timori boni operis, sed mali. Vis
autem non timere potestatem? Bonum fac, et habebis laudem ex
illa. Et si non ab illa, tamen ex illa. Aut enim iuste agis,
et iusta potestas laudabit te; aut iuste agentem, etiam si
potestas iniusta damnet te, Deus iustus coronabit te. Ac per hoc
tu iustitiam tene, tu bene vive; et si damnet sive absolvat,
habebis laudem ex illa. Beatus ille, cuius hic sanguis fusus
est, nonne ex ipsa potestate, antequam et a qua visus est
iudicari, laudem invenit? Confessionem promisit, in fide
permansit, mortem non timuit, sanguinem fudit, diabolum vicit.
(Sermo 13)

I won't translate the whole thing, since it is largely quotes from Rom
13. But I will translate the key phrases, "Bonum fac, et habebis
laudem ex illa. Et si non ab illa, tamen ex illa. Aut enim iuste agis,
et iusta potestas laudabit te; aut iuste agentem, etiam si potestas
iniusta damnet te, Deus iustus coronabit te. Ac per hoc tu iustitiam
tene, tu bene vive;"

It means:

Do waht is good, and you will have prase from it [authority]; And
if not from it, then throught it. For either if you do what is
just, then just authority will prase you; or you who do justice
will be crowned by God even if the unjust authorty condemns
you. But you must hold on to righteousness through this, you must
live well.

Now do not misunderstand what he refers to as "unjust authority": he
is really saying that if you obey authority, then either the authority
will praise you for it, or, if not, God will crown you in reward for
the obedience.

It amazes me that today's RCC thinks it can depart so freely from what
your own Doctores Ecclesiae taught so firmly and clearly. Especially
since we do not even _need_ their authority to see that this is the
correct interpretation of Rom 13: for we have Christ's own example,
who obeyed the most unjust authority, thea uthorityt hat unjustly
condemned Him to death.
Post by Chris Smith
Rather, he says that Christians should remain subject to authorities.
And authorities enforce the laws of the land. So "remaining subject to
authorities" implies obeying the laws. Again, this is clearer in the
Greek.
Post by Chris Smith
If I had suggested that we overthrow the government and establish a
Christian theocracy with laws that better represent our faith, then
Paul's comments here would be quite relevant.
Certainly not only then! For the very next verse, the verse you appear
not to be paying _any_ attnetio to, says ANYONE who resists the
authority resists God.
Post by Chris Smith
Paul also states that Christians owe to authorities respect, honor,
and taxes. He never says unquestioning obedience.
It's a good thing, too. You seem to read into Paul's letter a commend
to obey.
No, I do not "read into" it; it is really there. Look up GG5293
yourself if you don't believe me.
Post by Chris Smith
I wonder if you believe, on this basis, that all acts of civil
disobedience are wrong.
Can't you see Augustine teaching the same thing?
Post by Chris Smith
Do you wish that Martin Luther King has just
kept his mouth shut?
That is an unfair question; for if we are getting what _I_ wish, then
I would also wish that Truman had been more successful in getting the
Dixiecrats to reform long before King became active. Not to mention if
we had got _my_ wish, both Northerners and Southerners who conspired
to violate the 14th Amendment during Reconstruction would have been
severely punished.
Post by Chris Smith
That Ghandi had just been a good British subject?
I find it hard to agree with those statements,
Then maybe the problem is that you disagree with Paul.
Post by Chris Smith
and thus hard to agree
with blindly applying this interpretation of Paul without considering
the moral circumstances. Certainly first-century Christians didn't
interpret this statement of Paul's as absolute, for they continued to
worship God, even when they were forbidden by law from doing so.
And that exception to the rule has _always_ been recognized. But it
has always been recognized an an _exception_. You are denying the rule
itself, using the exception as the excuse.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
So if the state decides that people with HIV infections cannot get
married, then the Church is bound by Rom 13:1-4 to abide by that
decision.
No, the Church quite clearly is not.
Yes, it is. Read Rom 13:1-7 with the _correct_ sense to UPOTASSW.
Post by Chris Smith
I wonder whether you'd still
agree if I substituted a different disease or condition there. Say,
cancer? Attention deficit disorder?
All these questions are hypothetical irrelevant distractions.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
And in the verses I quote above, obedience to the civil authorities
is loudly and cleraly proclaimed: it does NOT proclaim obedience
only to just laws and commands.
Read again. Where does it say obey?
I already answered that. It is implied by the full and correct
understanding of UPOTASSW.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
If I were to declare my opposition to gay marriage as a political
issue, I'd have to either admit to being a hypocrit, or also ask
(a) partners are not already married
(b) married couples remain open to the possibility of children
(c) married couples intend fidelity and permanency in their vows
But you _can_ ask that the government enforce these conditions!
Just be prepared to take 'no' for an answer;)
But I really don't want it to happen!
So I have noticed. But it appears to me that your strong desire is
based on 1) a confused idea of 'marriage', not consistent with
Catholic doctrine and 2) an even more confused idea of the relation
between Church and State.
Post by Chris Smith
I do not consider it to be sound policy that I should be required to
prove to the government that I'm okay with having kids before I can
get married.
"Sound policy" or not, it is required by _Catholic_ law (RCCC 1652),
and has been frequently required by the less democratic states.

But you are still somewhat off-topic: the question is not whether or
not it is sound policy, the question is whether or not the state has
the right to require it. In the democratic tradition, they do not, but
there is no _Christian_ principle that is the grounds for this.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
But Christians are under no obligation to expect that the necessary
conditions of a civil marriage coincide _completely_ with those of
a Christian marriage.
No, we certainly agree there. We have neither the obligation nor the
right to expect this.
Post by Matthew Johnson
That is NOT the Tradition; the Tradition is to work with the state
to make civil marriage more humane, which means to narrow the gap
between civil and Church marriage.
I don't see a justification for this one, either. You've pointed out
that it has historically happened, but I haven't heard why you think
it ought to happen.
One thing at a time. I can't even get you to agree what "subject to
authorities mean". Once that is achieved, then I can move on to more
complicated topics.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract! This is why I am
surpise that you take this position.
I believe you are misinterpreting the catechism, given there are
clearly defined circumstances under which it is possible to be in
either situation (true marriage, and civil marriage) without the
other.
So _what_ if such "clearly defined circumstances" exist? What does
that have to do with whether or not marriage is a contract, or what
kind of contract it is, qua contract?
Post by Chris Smith
Where in the catechism (I assume you mean the CCC,
I didn't invent the abbreviation 'RCCC' for the latest Catechism.
Post by Chris Smith
rather than the Baltimore or something like that) is the statement
you're looking at?
Start with section 1601, read the whole thing. But pay particular
attention to 1601, 1624-5, which explicitly call marriage a
contract. And not just any contract, but the kind of contract I was
talking about. Nor is there anything to restrict this contractual
nature to _Christian_ marriage.

Speaking of which, you really snipped too much, since from your post
it is not possible to tell what kind of contract that is.

I am not the only one in this NG who recognizes such snipping as a
particularly obnoxious form of sly dishonesty. So please desist.

Now back to the topic: you seem to be determined to deny that such
civil contracts are marriage at all. But then how will you interpret
RCCC sec. 1650, which calls a "civil union" not a valid marriage ONLY
in the case that a preceding marriage is still valid? After all, if
the "civil union" was not at least some kind of a 'marriage', then
what would the transgression be? And why is this particular
transgression handled differently from adultery?

Now I would not claim from these reasons alone that the RCCC teaches
that civil unions are marriages. But they are hints. And I do claim
that closer inspection will provide firmer proof; especially if you
look at Canon Law to see that that "particular transgression" really
is handled differently from adultery.

But there are more hints: it also says, "God is the author of
marriage (RCCC 1603)". Do you really think that He is the author of only
_Christian_ marriage? Why shouldn't we see this as claiming authorship
of natural law marriage also? Or rather, of one kind of marriage,
which only after the Fall became divided into the lesser, natural law
marriage, and the greater Christian marriage?

Surely the latter view is encouraged by yet another RCCC comment, "The
calling to matrimony is written into the very nature of man and
woman(ibid)".

And so now we can get to the problem with your position: the kind of
unholy "civil union" _you_ propose allowing, unlike a civil union
between one man and one woman, is a -radical- renunciation of the goal
of marriage. It is the -opposite- of what "is written into the very
nature of man and woman". But as the RCCC says, marriage is instituted
by God; it makes NO restriction of this statement to _Church_
marriage. This is why the state allowing such "civil unions" is much
worse than the state allowing all the other kinds of 'marriage' that
were disallowed in Christian marriage.
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2006-08-17 03:23:30 UTC
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Post by shegeek72
Post by b***@juno.com
But gay people already have the very same right as every one else.....
the right to marry someone of the OPPOSITE sex.
This statement is ludicrous, but is typical of the "searching for
straws" of some Christians.
No, it is not 'ludicrous'. On the contrary: it is quite sound. Perhaps
that is why you dislike it so much.
Post by shegeek72
Post by b***@juno.com
Never in the history of the world, up until now, has anyone ever been
able to "marry" someone of the same sex.
Untrue.
Yes, true.
Post by shegeek72
There were gay marriages in England sanctioned by the church.
No, there were not.
Post by shegeek72
I don't remember the time period offhand, but could find out with a
bit of research.
And when you do that 'bit of research' -- if you do it honestly, which
would be a surprise -- you will find that either 1) it didn't happen
at all or 2) it was not done in a manner sanctioned by the Church; it
was an _abuse_ of marriage.
Post by shegeek72
And besides, just because it was usually between opposite
sexes doesn't prevent it from being accorded to same sexes.
But this is a "straw man" argument. Nobody ever advanced _this_
reasoning -- except for dissemblers.
Post by shegeek72
Tradition is a poor reason to deny equal rights.
It is NOT a right in the first place. That is the point.
Post by shegeek72
Post by b***@juno.com
As a side note, it should be mentioned that Francis Collins of the
Human Genome Project has mentioned that in scientific studies of
identical twins, if one twin is gay, there is only a twenty percent
chance that the other twin is gay. This demonstrates that gayness
is NOT hard-wired through genetics.
The Am. Psychological Assoc. has determined that homosexuality has
genetic causes.
And do you believe the APA's stance on astrology? If not, why do you
quote them here? Just more selective quotation?
Post by shegeek72
But the point is being gay is like having blue eyes,
No, the _point_ is that it is NOT, no matter how many times you repeat
this ludicrous claim. Nor is that what the APA said. We have been over
this before; you have yet to admit the difference between your words
and theirs.
Post by shegeek72
not matter what the cause it can't be changed. Anyone who thinks it can
is living in a dream world.
No, it is you who is living in a "dream world", one where astrology is
a science, and Boswell's pseudo-history is history.
Post by shegeek72
Post by b***@juno.com
"The trouble with gay activists is that they believe marriage is
just a selfish arrangement to get your partner's medical benefits,
when in actuality marriage is an institution designed to be a safe
environment to give birth to and raise children."
And if a gay couple wants to adopt, or have children via artificial
insemination? As shown by the article I posted, bans against gay
marriage hurt children,
Not -shown- at all, as I already pointed out.
Post by shegeek72
so anyone who opposes same-sex marriage is contributing to the
harming of children. Not very Christian behavior.
Raising such false accusations does not lend credibility to your cause.
Post by shegeek72
There are also many other rights granted to married couples like
inheritance, hospital rights, tax benefits, etc.
Post by b***@juno.com
Gay people want to have the medical benefits of marriage, without
the responsibility of bearing and raising children. They selfishly
want for themselves the percieved benefits of marriage, with none
of the responsibilities.
Not true, as I stated in the previous answer.
But your argument was flawed there, too.
Post by shegeek72
And there are some hetero couples who don't want children. Should
they be banned from from marriage?
In the Roman Church, they are. See RCCC 1652-4.
Post by shegeek72
Post by b***@juno.com
Marriage has VERY LITTLE to do with the husband and wife, from the
standpoint of government. From a purely governmental standpoint,
the main purpose of marriage is to procreate new taxpayers.
That may have been true (though it sounds ludicrous to me) in the early
times of America when children were needed to work the fields, coal
mines, etc. Now it's not needed, as we're seeing the results of
over-population here and around the world.
You have not understood. Typical of you. Even if there is
"over-population" in some parts of the world, individual states _DO_
have very good motives to keep their own populations
growing. Governments which overlooked this often face demographic
catastrophes, such as the graying of the populations in China and
Japan.
Post by shegeek72
Post by b***@juno.com
That's why government must draw the line. It should not allow
people to get "married" why by definition cannot create new
taxpayers.
Though this is OT (you brought it up): our current income tax is
illegal as declared by the Supreme Court in the 1916 case of
Brushaerber v. Union Pacific R.R. Think about that the next time you
get your paycheck and 40% is gone to the govt.
Finally, you admit when you are off-topic! You should do this more
often.
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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-17 03:23:35 UTC
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[snip]
Post by Emma Pease
Yet I believe the early church recognized marriages between male
slaves and free women.
You do? WHY do you believe this? You could just be mistaken.
Post by Emma Pease
A type of marriage that was forbidden by Roman
law. Also I don't believe slaves in the American south had legally
recognized marriages, were they therefore living in sin in the eyes of
the church unless celibate; did the churches they attended refuse to
perform any ceremony?
Are you willing to recognize as a 'church', an organization that denies that
slaves even have souls? That _was_ the grounds for refusing them marriages.

[snip]
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Emma Pease
2006-08-18 02:04:34 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
[snip]
Post by Emma Pease
Yet I believe the early church recognized marriages between male
slaves and free women.
You do? WHY do you believe this? You could just be mistaken.
In "Refutation of all Heresies" the author accuses a bishop of Rome,
Callistus (died 223),

For even also he permitted females, if they were
unwedded, and burned with passion at an age at all events
unbecoming, or if they were not disposed to overturn their own dignity
through a legal marriage, that they might have whomsoever they would
choose as a bedfellow, whether a slave or free, and that a woman,
though not legally married, might consider such a companion as a
husband.

Admittedly the author is denouncing Callistus.

The Catholic Encyclopedia has on Callistus

http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/03183d.htm
...permitted noble
ladies to marry low persons and slaves, which by the Roman law was
forbidden; he had thus given occasion for infanticide. Here again
Callistus was rightly insisting on the distinction between the
ecclesiastical law of marriage and the civil law, which later ages
have always taught.

So it appears the Bishop of Rome in the early 3rd century CE was
permitting civilly illegal marriages.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Emma Pease
A type of marriage that was forbidden by Roman
law. Also I don't believe slaves in the American south had legally
recognized marriages, were they therefore living in sin in the eyes of
the church unless celibate; did the churches they attended refuse to
perform any ceremony?
Are you willing to recognize as a 'church', an organization that denies that
slaves even have souls? That _was_ the grounds for refusing them marriages.
[snip]
I'm confused. Note I'm making no statements on the worthiness of any
group claiming to be a church; I'm just trying to describe what is.
I'm stating that civilly the marriage of slaves in the US did not
exist. So did the churches of that time allow them to marry
religiously even though they would not be married in the eyes of the
state? If so, do you consider the churches were right or wrong to do
so considering the state would not recognize the marriage?

Emma

ps. A slave couldn't marry because, like a child under the age of
consent, he was considered incapable of entering a contract.
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Matthew Johnson
2006-08-21 01:10:04 UTC
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Post by Emma Pease
Post by Matthew Johnson
[snip]
Post by Emma Pease
Yet I believe the early church recognized marriages between male
slaves and free women.
You do? WHY do you believe this? You could just be mistaken.
In "Refutation of all Heresies" the author accuses a bishop of Rome,
Callistus (died 223),
For even also he permitted females, if they were
unwedded, and burned with passion at an age at all events
unbecoming, or if they were not disposed to overturn their own dignity
through a legal marriage, that they might have whomsoever they would
choose as a bedfellow, whether a slave or free, and that a woman,
though not legally married, might consider such a companion as a
husband.
Admittedly the author is denouncing Callistus.
And that is exactly what I expected. A bishop allowed it, but he had no right to
do so, and was denounced for it.
Post by Emma Pease
The Catholic Encyclopedia has on Callistus
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/03183d.htm
...permitted noble
ladies to marry low persons and slaves, which by the Roman law was
forbidden; he had thus given occasion for infanticide. Here again
Callistus was rightly insisting on the distinction between the
ecclesiastical law of marriage and the civil law, which later ages
have always taught.
So it appears the Bishop of Rome in the early 3rd century CE was
permitting civilly illegal marriages.
For which, as you pointed out above, he was criticized, and quite sharply. The
CE's comments about "rightly insisting" are simply wrong. The CE makes this kind
of prejudicial error quite frequently. IN this case, it is a weak attempt to
defend the reputation of the See of Rome's for infallibility.

[snip]
Post by Emma Pease
Post by Matthew Johnson
Are you willing to recognize as a 'church', an organization that denies that
slaves even have souls? That _was_ the grounds for refusing them marriages.
[snip]
I'm confused. Note I'm making no statements on the worthiness of any
group claiming to be a church; I'm just trying to describe what is.
The two are not always so cleanly separable.
Post by Emma Pease
I'm stating that civilly the marriage of slaves in the US did not
exist. So did the churches of that time allow them to marry
religiously even though they would not be married in the eyes of the
state? If so, do you consider the churches were right or wrong to do
so considering the state would not recognize the marriage?
You are asking the wrong question: I don't consider any of the organizations
then present in the US 'churches'. Of course, this is a minority view in this
NG.
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gilgames
2006-08-21 01:10:04 UTC
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<<
If so, do you consider the churches were right or wrong to do
so considering the state would not recognize the marriage?

Emma

ps. A slave couldn't marry because, like a child under the age of
consent, he was considered incapable of entering a contract.
May be some of you remember Bork from around 1990. He was a Supreme
Court appointee, who belived that the Constitution shall be considered
from the point of view of the natural law, which means that there is an
eternal and universal system of the morality, and this is above the
civil law. He was 'borked' by the liberals, but this is a deep christian
principle: the civil law in not w/o control, and the control is the
natural law.
Chris Smith
2006-08-21 01:10:06 UTC
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Post by Emma Pease
What a church recognizes as a marriage can be quite different. The
Catholic church doesn't recognize second civil marriages of divorced
Catholics unless preceded by a religious annulment (it might be
interesting to know what the church's view is of a couple that get a
religious annulment and then discover that the earlier civil divorce
wasn't valid [e.g., they are still married in the eyes of the state]).
Here's the view of the Catholic Church on such a situation.

The declaration of nullity means that the Church examined the marriage
and determined that it is not valid. If the couple discovers that they
are legally married but the annulment was granted, then they should take
steps to reconcile their legal status with the simple fact that they are
both single. In the absence of some serious cause, this couple should
obtain a legal divorce as soon as possible... or else truly marry each
other if that's the way they wish to live and if they've taken care of
whatever problem made the first marriage invalid so that they can now
validly marry.

A declaration of nullity has no necessary relationship to a civil
divorce, although of course people asking the Church to adjudicate a
case for a declaration of nullity are generally divorced as well.
There's no reason the Church would somehow retract any prior decision on
the validity of a marriage just because of some flaw in the legal
divorce process.
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Chris Smith
2006-08-21 01:10:10 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
This too is largely evasion: so _what_ if you "don't believe it is
contrary"? What I am asking about is WHY you don't believe it is
contrary.
Surely you realize that I went on to explain exactly that. Do you ever
have pleasant discussions with anyone? I've removed the page of
unmitigated insults from the beginning of your response in hopes of
actually talking about the matter at hand. I'm reaching the end of my
patience, though.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
The Church certainly teaches that being married in the eyes of legal
authority as different from true marriage.
No, it teaches that it is different from _Christian_ marriage: but the
marriage of natural law is no less real and 'true'. It is just that
Christians are called to more than the natural law notion.
It's true that marriage under natural law is recognized as valid by the
Church. Natural law marriage is true marriage, and it remains distinct
from marriage as defined by a legal authority. So there are three
concepts, and they are categorized something like the following:

1. Legal marriage
2. True marriage
2a. Purely natural law marriage
2b. Sacramental marriage

Ultimately, the Church teaches that 2b includes 2a (i.e., every valid
Christian marriage is also a valid marriage under natural law) but that
marriage between the baptized is *also* sacramental. It does carry
additional responsibilities and meaning. However, the requirements for
marriage that I've listed here (intention to fidelity, openness to
children, etc.) are requirements for natural law marriage as understood
by the Church. They are not unique to 2b. We haven't really said much
about 2b, since this thread has been about the distinction between
marriage in sense 1 and sense 2. I have, probably unwisely, used the
phrase "Christian marriage" to refer to all of sense 2 at times; only
because I have no better word for it. It is not limited merely to
marriage between Christians.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Declarations of nullity are frequently denied to applicants who are
civilly divorced.
But not _always_ denied. You are silent about the relevant
differentiae.
Of course not always denied. Why in the world would there be an
anulment process if declarations of nullity were always denied? The
point is that the Church recognizes the difference between real marriage
(for which they may or may not grant a declaration of nullity) and legal
marriage (which indisputably ends with the divorce). If there were no
such difference, then there would be no need for the anulment process
there either.

Now what was your point?
Post by Matthew Johnson
But, as you finally admit, only under _extreme_ circustances. Under
normal circumstances, the Roman Church will not bless a marriage
forbidden by the laws of the relevant state. So you were wrong when you
said "governments don't decide".
Governments don't decide. Governments do typically recognize some form
of marriage, and the laws are typically not terribly unjust. As such,
married Christians are expected to abide by those laws and become
recognized as a married couple under the law. This doesn't affect the
validity of their marriage, though. It's purely a matter of the licity
of marriage, not the validity. When it is impossible or infeasible, the
requirement is waived.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
However, when
local laws are not just, the Church will marry couples who do not
enter into a legal arrangement.
And how do they justify this given Romans 13
below
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
If a particular church would refuse this in one of the above
situations, I consider that very sad.
But you have no right to do this; for at least _some_ of those
churches are being faithful to Paul's teaching.
Of course I have every right to consider this sad. If I'm wrong, surely
you're willing to tell me why.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Yes, he does. You are not admitting the implications of
'subjection'. Perhaps you are confused by the English translation.
Perhaps. Not knowing Greek, I am not qualified to continue the
discussion in that particular direction. Fortunately, there are still
directions to go. Perhaps you can point out anyone's qualified analysis
that says that "subjection" really means "absolute obedience" there.
Biblical translations are done with excruciating care; and I have no
doubt that if the translators of any given translation felt that obey
were the better word, I have no doubt they would have used it.

The evidence you do quote seems to similarly not say what you claim.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Therefore he that resisteth the power, withstandeth the ordinance
of God: and they that withstand shall receive to themselves
judgment. (Rom 13:2 RV)
This again speaks to whether Christians ought to resist others having
power over them, not to whether they ought to obey every command that is
given.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Furthermore, the father of Latin theology seems to agree with me. For
[...]
Do waht is good, and you will have prase from it [authority]; And
if not from it, then throught it. For either if you do what is
just, then just authority will prase you; or you who do justice
will be crowned by God even if the unjust authorty condemns
you. But you must hold on to righteousness through this, you must
live well.
Now do not misunderstand what he refers to as "unjust authority": he
is really saying that if you obey authority, then either the authority
will praise you for it, or, if not, God will crown you in reward for
the obedience.
Why would even unjust authority condemn anyone for obeying them? That
doesn't make any sense. Rather, this is saying the exact opposite of
what you said. It says to do JUSTICE (not blind obedience), and you
will be crowned by God even if the unjust authority condems you for it.
In other words, don't sweat who is in authority (again, Paul's theme:
Christians are not to resist being subject to authority), but rather do
what is right, and you'll be rewarded either here or later. Paul uses
the nearly same words, just past the section you quoted earlier in this
thread; neither Augustine nor Paul seem to believe that doing whatever
the temporal authority wants is the way to go; rather, they advise
remaining subject to rightful authority, and doing justice from that
status.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
I wonder if you believe, on this basis, that all acts of civil
disobedience are wrong.
Can't you see Augustine teaching the same thing?
No.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Then maybe the problem is that you disagree with Paul.
I certainly disagree with your reading of Paul.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Certainly first-century Christians didn't
interpret this statement of Paul's as absolute, for they continued to
worship God, even when they were forbidden by law from doing so.
And that exception to the rule has _always_ been recognized. But it
has always been recognized an an _exception_. You are denying the rule
itself, using the exception as the excuse.
So you agree there are exceptions? Is there a definitive list
somewhere? If not, then this certainly weakens your case that Paul
meant obedience. If Paul meant obedience *except* when you happen to
think disobedience was justified, then what other exceptions are there?
How do you know he didn't mean obedience except when governments ban
interracial marriage, or ban marriage by people with certain diseases,
etc.

(Of course, we're not really even talking about disobeying authority.
No one is advocating that people who are married without legal
recognition should attempt to gain the same tax benefits and such for
which legal marriage would entitle them. We are talking about real
marriage, which is not a matter of law or authority. I said that
earlier, and it's gotten a little buried.)
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
I do not consider it to be sound policy that I should be required to
prove to the government that I'm okay with having kids before I can
get married.
"Sound policy" or not, it is required by _Catholic_ law (RCCC 1652),
and has been frequently required by the less democratic states.
Let's be clear here. Catholic doctrine requires that marriage be
oriented toward procreation, and I am not a dissenter from that
doctrine. What I disagree with is whether the government ought to be
enforcing this. I see nothing in the catechism suggesting that it
should.
Post by Matthew Johnson
But you are still somewhat off-topic: the question is not whether or
not it is sound policy, the question is whether or not the state has
the right to require it.
The original question, actually, was whether, as a matter of course, the
Christian faith ought to lead people to advocate the enforcement of
certain requirements of marriage by the government in their recognition
of marriage as a legal institution (in particular, the requirement that
marriage is between a man and a woman). I still haven't seen a good
reason that it ought to lead to that kind of advocacy.

Whether states have a right to enforce this is a different, though
related, question. I don't believe that they do. Nevertheless, it is a
more complex question, and beyond what we were discussing here.
Post by Matthew Johnson
So _what_ if such "clearly defined circumstances" exist? What does
that have to do with whether or not marriage is a contract, or what
kind of contract it is, qua contract?
They clearly demonstrate that *whatever* marriage is, it is not the same
thing as the legal institution. If they were the same thing, it would
be impossible to have one but not the other. That is possible, so they
are not the same. It's really very simple.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Start with section 1601, read the whole thing. But pay particular
attention to 1601, 1624-5, which explicitly call marriage a
contract. And not just any contract, but the kind of contract I was
talking about. Nor is there anything to restrict this contractual
nature to _Christian_ marriage.
I agree that marriage has a contractual nature. (The catechism uses
"covenant".) The question is whether the contract is the same as legal
marriage (it isn't) and if not, whether there is any reason for
Christians to advocate that the requirements for one should match the
requirements for the other (I don't see such a reason).
Post by Matthew Johnson
Speaking of which, you really snipped too much, since from your post
it is not possible to tell what kind of contract that is.
I am not the only one in this NG who recognizes such snipping as a
particularly obnoxious form of sly dishonesty. So please desist.
If you (or anyone else) "recognize" it as such, then you are mistaken.
I snip irrelevant and repetitive comments in order to focus on the topic
of discussion. Since you have a tendency to make a lot of repetitive
comments, comments that are just contradictions without any real content
or reasons, and comments that are really only vicious character attacks,
it becomes more necessary to snip heavily in order to keep the thread
manageable.

In this case, we agree about the nature of marriage as a
contract/covenant. It isn't at issue. If you feel I've left something
out that I shouldn't have, feel free to quote it or bring it up again.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Now back to the topic: you seem to be determined to deny that such
civil contracts are marriage at all. But then how will you interpret
RCCC sec. 1650, which calls a "civil union" not a valid marriage ONLY
in the case that a preceding marriage is still valid? After all, if
the "civil union" was not at least some kind of a 'marriage', then
what would the transgression be? And why is this particular
transgression handled differently from adultery?
Section 1650 of the CCC does several things:

1. It clearly defines that civil marriage is *not* the same as real
marriage. This is an important point.

2. It points out that those who live as if they are married to someone
else (via a civil union) despite having an earlier marriage they are
neglecting (and with regard to which they are civilly divorced) are in a
state of sin. It describes certain ecclesiastical consequences that
apply so long as they persist in that sin. It also provides that they
may repent of this sin and be restored to right relationship with God if
they make a commitment to live "in complete continence" (a word which
has two meanings; in this case, it means abstinence from sexual
activity, rather than the ability to avoid urination), and thus no
longer live in sin. In other words, their adultery is the sin, not
their civil marriage status. If they cease to commit adultery, then the
Church recognizes there there may be a valid reason to continue living
in a legal state of marriage, especially if there are children in the
picture.

This section does not lay down all the requirements for determination of
whether a civil marriage is or is not valid; it only mentions one such
invalidating factor. Another important condition, for example, is
mentioned in 1626. It would be a mistake to interpret 1650 as saying
that a marriage is always valid unless there are previous marriages.

Why is it handled differently from adultery? It's mentioned separately
because it is a common problem. The consequences laid out by CCC 1650
are the same as those that would apply to someone in any other state of
chronic adultery: namely, that person would be forbidden from receiving
Eucharist due to being in a state of sin; would be forbidden from
certain ecclesiastical functions such as serving as an OEM, etc. There
is, of course, a certain presumption in 1650 that persons who are
engaged in a civil union probably intend to continue their adultery
while someone who just committed adultery last night with a stranger may
not share that intent; but it's also made clear that as soon as such a
person makes a committment to cease their adultery, they may seek out
the sacrament of reconciliation and are no longer under any kind of
penalty.
Post by Matthew Johnson
But there are more hints: it also says, "God is the author of
marriage (RCCC 1603)". Do you really think that He is the author of only
_Christian_ marriage? Why shouldn't we see this as claiming authorship
of natural law marriage also? Or rather, of one kind of marriage,
which only after the Fall became divided into the lesser, natural law
marriage, and the greater Christian marriage?
Yes, I agree.
Post by Matthew Johnson
And so now we can get to the problem with your position: the kind of
unholy "civil union" _you_ propose allowing, unlike a civil union
between one man and one woman, is a -radical- renunciation of the goal
of marriage. It is the -opposite- of what "is written into the very
nature of man and woman". But as the RCCC says, marriage is instituted
by God; it makes NO restriction of this statement to _Church_
marriage. This is why the state allowing such "civil unions" is much
worse than the state allowing all the other kinds of 'marriage' that
were disallowed in Christian marriage.
The last part of this doesn't follow. We agree up to the point of there
being requirements for natural law marriage that exclude its being
possible between a homosexual couple. The step from there to civil
unions is missing.
--
Chris Smith
Matthew Johnson
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Post by Matthew Johnson
This too is largely evasion: so _what_ if you "don't believe it is
contrary"? What I am asking about is WHY you don't believe it is
contrary.
Surely you realize that I went on to explain exactly that.
No, what I realized is that you might have THOUGHT you did. But you
did not. That is why I corrected you. You despised the
correction. What does that tell us about your ability to understand
your own Catholic faith? See Pro 13:18 for a hint.
Post by Chris Smith
Do you ever have pleasant discussions with anyone?
Yes, I do. But they do not resort to evasion and obfuscation with the
abandon that you do. Nor do they then accuse me of the evasion they
are themselves guilty of -- as you do.
Post by Chris Smith
I've removed the page of unmitigated insults
"Unmitigated insults"? Are you serious? If you are, then I have to
believe you do not understand what the word 'unmitigated' even MEANS.
Post by Chris Smith
from the beginning of your response in hopes of actually talking
about the matter at hand.
To do that, you will have to quit misusing words like 'unmitigated' and
give up the evasions.
Post by Chris Smith
I'm reaching the end of my patience, though.
Then you don't have much patience. In fact, you don't have enough to
add to this NG. Take up another hobby; if you can't stand the heat,
stay out of the kitchen.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
The Church certainly teaches that being married in the eyes of legal
authority as different from true marriage.
No, it teaches that it is different from _Christian_ marriage: but the
marriage of natural law is no less real and 'true'. It is just that
Christians are called to more than the natural law notion.
It's true that marriage under natural law is recognized as valid by the
Church.
Finally, you admit this. What took you so long?
Post by Chris Smith
Natural law marriage is true marriage, and it remains distinct from
marriage as defined by a legal authority.
What? Then legal authorities never recognize natural law marriage? Now
that is novel. Or do you misunderstand 'distinct' as badly as you do
'unmitigated'?

You could avoid a lot of grief, Chris, if you would use only words you
understand well, avoiding fancy vocabulary that at best makes you look
pretentious.

If "natural law marriage" and "marriage defined by a legal authority"
were _distinct_, then there would be no overlap between the two. But
the RCCC makes it clear that it expects such overlap. Nor is this new
with the RCCC. It is an RCC tradition going back at least as far as
Aquinas (see below).
Post by Chris Smith
So there are three concepts, and they are categorized something like
1. Legal marriage
2. True marriage
This term never even _occurs_ in the RCCC!
Post by Chris Smith
2a. Purely natural law marriage
2b. Sacramental marriage
Ultimately, the Church teaches that 2b includes 2a (i.e., every valid
Christian marriage is also a valid marriage under natural law) but
that marriage between the baptized is *also* sacramental.
By 'also', I would have assumed you mean "in addition to being natural
law marriage". But you surprise me below with an apparent admission of
sacramental marriage between non-christians. Not to mention you said
'purely'. Well it is it _purely_ 'natural law', then how can you have
an _addition_ to it?
Post by Chris Smith
It does carry additional responsibilities and meaning. However, the
requirements for marriage that I've listed here (intention to
fidelity, openness to children, etc.) are requirements for natural
law marriage as understood by the Church.
Then Old Testament polygamy was _not_ "natural law marriage"? Then
what was it? Will you deny that it was 'valid'? Also, _some_ of the
requirement you mention have also been required for civil marriages by
certain states.
Post by Chris Smith
They are not unique to 2b. We haven't really said much about 2b,
since this thread has been about the distinction between marriage in
sense 1 and sense 2. I have, probably unwisely, used the phrase
"Christian marriage" to refer to all of sense 2 at times;
Yes, that was unwise. I am glad you admit this. Now if only you would
admit that using the terms of the RCCC but not in their senses of the
terms is unwise!
Post by Chris Smith
only because I have no better word for it.
Really? You just admitted that all Christian marriage is natural law
marriage. Now since it would be truly shocking to insist on a
sacramental marriage that is not Christian marriage, you could have
simply used "natural law marriage" and that would have covered what 2a
and 2b have in common. What more could you have needed?
Post by Chris Smith
It is not limited merely to marriage between Christians.
Which 'it'? ARE you claiming that there exists sacramental marriage
that is not between Christians? How can you reconcile this with the
general principle that the sacraments are in the Church?
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Declarations of nullity are frequently denied to applicants who
are civilly divorced.
But not _always_ denied. You are silent about the relevant
differentiae.
Of course not always denied. Why in the world would there be an
anulment process if declarations of nullity were always denied?
Your question misses the point. You are evading again. You are still
silent about the differentiae.
Post by Chris Smith
The point is that the Church recognizes the difference between real
marriage (for which they may or may not grant a declaration of
nullity) and legal marriage (which indisputably ends with the
divorce).
Surely you don't mean what you said here. You are speaking as if ALL
legal marriage ends in divorce!
Post by Chris Smith
If there were no such difference, then there would be no need for the
anulment process there either.
Now what was your point?
My point was that you were silent about the relevant differentiae. And
you still are. Please address the topic.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
But, as you finally admit, only under _extreme_ circustances. Under
normal circumstances, the Roman Church will not bless a marriage
forbidden by the laws of the relevant state. So you were wrong when
you said "governments don't decide".
Governments don't decide.
How can you repeat this groundless claim? I already explained why you
were wrong the first time you said this, and you have said nothing to
rebut what I said.
Post by Chris Smith
Governments do typically recognize some form of marriage, and the
laws are typically not terribly unjust.
And if they are "not terribly unjust", then there WILL be overlap with
"natural law marriage". For it is in the state's interest to encourge
the same things the Church encourages, within limits. And they have
done this.
Post by Chris Smith
As such, married Christians are expected to abide by those laws and
become recognized as a married couple under the law. This doesn't
affect the validity of their marriage, though. It's purely a matter
of the licity of marriage, not the validity.
How can it be valid if it is not licit?
Post by Chris Smith
When it is impossible or infeasible, the requirement is waived.
But ONLY then? And who defines what is 'infeasible'?
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
However, when local laws are not just, the Church will marry
couples who do not enter into a legal arrangement.
And how do they justify this given Romans 13
below
I did not find that persuasive. See below for why.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
If a particular church would refuse this in one of the above
situations, I consider that very sad.
But you have no right to do this; for at least _some_ of those
churches are being faithful to Paul's teaching.
Of course I have every right to consider this sad. If I'm wrong,
surely you're willing to tell me why.
I already did. I gave you the Augustine commentary on Rom 13. You have
no right to criticize people/churches for being faithful to the
commandments Paul gives us in Rom 13, unless you are willing to deny
the Church's teaching on the inspiration of Scripture.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Yes, he does. You are not admitting the implications of
'subjection'. Perhaps you are confused by the English translation.
Perhaps. Not knowing Greek, I am not qualified to continue the
discussion in that particular direction. Fortunately, there are
still directions to go. Perhaps you can point out anyone's qualified
analysis that says that "subjection" really means "absolute
obedience" there. Biblical translations are done with excruciating
care;
Unfortunately, not always. And it doesn't do much good to do it with
"excruciating care" if the reader forgets that he is, after all,
reading a tranlsation, since no translation is perfect. That is _why_
we use the commentary of experts at exegesis and hermeneutics,
especially the commentary of the Fathers, such as Augustine.

I can tell you were NOT relying on such commentary when you disputed
the meaning of 'be subject to'.

Besides: you are still only pretending to discuss the matter honestly:
I did NOT say that it is clear _only_ in Greek. I said it is _clearer_
in Greek. You should have seen it even from the _English_ sense of the
word 'subjection', as I also explained.
Post by Chris Smith
and I have no doubt that if the translators of any given translation
felt that obey were the better word, I have no doubt they would have
used it.
You miss the point. I never said that 'obey' was the better
word. Rather, what I said what that the notion of 'subjection'
_includes_ obedience.

Why do you have so much trouble understanding this?
Post by Chris Smith
The evidence you do quote seems to similarly not say what you claim.
That is a hideously formulated sentence. Perhaps if you had realized
this before clicking 'send', you would have seen how the evidence
quoted does support my claim. Try again.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Therefore he that resisteth the power, withstandeth the
ordinance of God: and they that withstand shall receive to
themselves judgment. (Rom 13:2 RV)
This again speaks to whether Christians ought to resist others having
power over them, not to whether they ought to obey every command that
is given.
And what do you _think_ the authorities use this power for? To enforce
obedience to the laws they pass. Paul was explicit about this in the
following verses. Why, he even speaks as if the authority could not
use his power for anything _but_ good!
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Furthermore, the father of Latin theology seems to agree with me. For
[...]
Do waht is good, and you will have prase from it [authority]; And
if not from it, then throught it. For either if you do what is
just, then just authority will prase you; or you who do justice
will be crowned by God even if the unjust authorty condemns
you. But you must hold on to righteousness through this, you must
live well.
Now do not misunderstand what he refers to as "unjust authority": he
is really saying that if you obey authority, then either the authority
will praise you for it, or, if not, God will crown you in reward for
the obedience.
Why would even unjust authority condemn anyone for obeying them?
Stalin did it all the time. But this getting off topic.
Post by Chris Smith
That doesn't make any sense. Rather, this is saying the exact
opposite of what you said.
That isn't what either I or Augustine said. It is your misreading. No
wonder it "doesn't make any sense".
Post by Chris Smith
It says to do JUSTICE (not blind obedience), and you will be crowned
by God even if the unjust authority condems you for it.
Aha! So now it is the word 'justice' you do not understand! When
Augustine says 'justice' here, the sense of the word is similar to
that in the name for the branch of government here in the US, 'Justice
department'. That is, 'justice' means what the justice department says
it is, NOT just what some abstract standard says.

Really, this should not be so hard for you to understand. It is
related to the old idea of "the social contract", which says that we
obey the laws set up by society's authorities, we do NOT judge the
laws ourselves, deciding which we will obey and which we will not.

Finally, no, this is not 'blind obedience'. Remember the social contract.
But this is NOT what he said. This is what you say. Quite different.
Post by Chris Smith
Christians are not to resist being subject to authority),
Well, you got that part right. Now if only you would understand that
"being subject to authority" means obeying the laws.
Post by Chris Smith
but rather do what is right,
And obeying the law IS doing what is right, at least if done in the
spirit of Rom 13:1-7,
Post by Chris Smith
and you'll be rewarded either here or later.
Augustine says rewarded by God or by authority, and you _change_ what
he says, making it "here or later"! And you wonder why I find you have
no credibility?
Post by Chris Smith
Paul uses the nearly same words, just past the section you quoted
earlier in this thread;
No, he does not.
Post by Chris Smith
neither Augustine nor Paul seem to believe that doing whatever the
temporal authority wants is the way to go; rather, they advise
remaining subject to rightful authority, and doing justice from that
status.
But this doesn't make any sense. You are still running away from the
meaning of "subject to authority". And BTW: you inserted another word
not in the text, 'rightful'. There is NO such caveat in Paul or
Augustine.

If you keep on tampering with the text like this, expect far worse
punishment than my alleged "character attacks".
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
I wonder if you believe, on this basis, that all acts of civil
disobedience are wrong.
Can't you see Augustine teaching the same thing?
No.
And now I know why: you refuse to recognize the obvious sense of 'be
subject to', and you fail to recognize that of 'justice'. Worse yet,
you tamper with the words of Scripture, saying "rightful authority"
where Scripture says NO such thing.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Then maybe the problem is that you disagree with Paul.
I certainly disagree with your reading of Paul.
I know this. I also now know that the reason you disagree is that you
consistently twist the sense of Paul's words in Rom 13:1-7. For you
have exhibited several different ways of twisting these words in this
thread.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Certainly first-century Christians didn't
interpret this statement of Paul's as absolute, for they continued to
worship God, even when they were forbidden by law from doing so.
And that exception to the rule has _always_ been recognized. But it
has always been recognized an an _exception_. You are denying the rule
itself, using the exception as the excuse.
So you agree there are exceptions?
You only just now notice?
Post by Chris Smith
Is there a definitive list somewhere?
Not that I know of.
Post by Chris Smith
If not, then this certainly weakens your case that Paul meant
obedience.
Not really. There are exceptions to lots of things. That is WHY people
say, "there's an exception to every rule".
Post by Chris Smith
If Paul meant obedience *except* when you happen to think
disobedience was justified,
Ah, but your exception clause is your own invention. Not mine. So why
would I defend it?
Post by Chris Smith
then what other exceptions are there? How do you know he didn't mean
obedience except when governments ban interracial marriage, or ban
marriage by people with certain diseases, etc.
Before you can understand how we know what the exceptions to the rule
are, you have to admit that the rule says what it says.
Post by Chris Smith
(Of course, we're not really even talking about disobeying authority.
No one is advocating that people who are married without legal
recognition should attempt to gain the same tax benefits and such for
which legal marriage would entitle them. We are talking about real
marriage, which is not a matter of law or authority. I said that
earlier, and it's gotten a little buried.)
The reason it "got a little buried" is because you have piled so many
distractions into this thread, such as your digression about
"complementary position" being 'topical', and your digression about
"establishing Christian theocracy" -- among many others. In fact, that
whole parenthetical sentence of yours is yet another digression:
attempting to get tax benefits you are not qualified for is a
violation of a _different_ law, one that we do not dispute states have
a right to expect obedience to.

Such digresssion, BTW, are the main reason you have failed to keep
this thread manageable.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
I do not consider it to be sound policy that I should be required to
prove to the government that I'm okay with having kids before I can
get married.
"Sound policy" or not, it is required by _Catholic_ law (RCCC 1652),
and has been frequently required by the less democratic states.
Let's be clear here.
That would be a pleasant change.
Post by Chris Smith
Catholic doctrine requires that marriage be oriented toward
procreation, and I am not a dissenter from that doctrine.
'Oriented toward'? That makes it sound like the main or even sole
goal. But this is probably just another bad choice of term on your
part, since you must admit that the upbringing of children in the
faith is just as important a goal of matrimony.
Post by Chris Smith
What I disagree with is whether the government ought to be enforcing
this. I see nothing in the catechism suggesting that it should.
Again: one thing at a time! If you knock it off with the relevant
digressions, we will get there.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
But you are still somewhat off-topic: the question is not whether or
not it is sound policy, the question is whether or not the state has
the right to require it.
The original question, actually, was whether, as a matter of course, the
Christian faith ought to lead people to advocate the enforcement of
certain requirements of marriage by the government in their recognition
of marriage as a legal institution (in particular, the requirement that
marriage is between a man and a woman). I still haven't seen a good
reason that it ought to lead to that kind of advocacy.
Well, it is good to see you recognize the original question fairly
accurately. Now if only you would also recognize that this is a
several-step process, and you have made even the first steps difficult
with your twisted interpretation not just of Scripture, but even of
Augustine and the Catechism!

For that matter, it is your Catholic church that has, for _centuries_
fought for natural law to be better expressed in the actual laws
(a.k.a. 'positive law')of states. That is WHY Aquinas said that
"positive law that violates natural law is not true law"; that is WHY
Jesuit colleges have Law Faculties. So it surprises me that you need
proof that such a thing is good to do.
Post by Chris Smith
Whether states have a right to enforce this is a different, though
related, question. I don't believe that they do. Nevertheless, it is a
more complex question, and beyond what we were discussing here.
No, it is not beyond it. You will see this when you understand Rom
13:1-7 better.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
So _what_ if such "clearly defined circumstances" exist? What does
that have to do with whether or not marriage is a contract, or what
kind of contract it is, qua contract?
They clearly demonstrate that *whatever* marriage is, it is not the
same thing as the legal institution. If they were the same thing, it
would be impossible to have one but not the other. That is possible,
so they are not the same. It's really very simple.
Again, you are resorting to irrelevant distraction. I never said they
_were_ the same. What I said was that even a civil marriage is a
'marriage' in some sense, and what I am trying to get you to realize
is that the language of the RCCC implies that marriage in this sense
too, is instituted by God. It is just that this form is very much
inferior to Christian marriage, which is the most perfect fulfillment
(in this life) of marriage as instituted by God. This difference is
what 1603 alludes to when it describes marriage as instituted by God
_despite_ the various changes made to it by different cultures and
social structures.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Start with section 1601, read the whole thing. But pay particular
attention to 1601, 1624-5, which explicitly call marriage a
contract. And not just any contract, but the kind of contract I was
talking about. Nor is there anything to restrict this contractual
nature to _Christian_ marriage.
I agree that marriage has a contractual nature. (The catechism uses
"covenant".)
That is the English translation. The French, Spanish and Latin do not
follow it, but use a word with a much stronger implication of
'contract' (e.g. 'foedus'). And it is the civil authority that decides
contract law.
Post by Chris Smith
The question is whether the contract is the same as legal marriage
(it isn't)
Why are you so sure of this? Clearly that depends on how the state
defines "legal marriage"; in some states, it _is_ the contract.
Post by Chris Smith
and if not, whether there is any reason for Christians to advocate
that the requirements for one should match the requirements for the
other (I don't see such a reason).
If you don't bury this thread in irrelevant distractions -- as you
appear to be trying to do to date -- we will get there. One thing at a
time!
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Speaking of which, you really snipped too much, since from your post
it is not possible to tell what kind of contract that is.
I am not the only one in this NG who recognizes such snipping as a
particularly obnoxious form of sly dishonesty. So please desist.
If you (or anyone else) "recognize" it as such, then you are mistaken.
It is easy to state false generalizations like that. But they are
still false.
Post by Chris Smith
I snip irrelevant and repetitive comments in order to focus on the topic
of discussion.
No, you do not. On the contrary: you are yourself the _source_ of many
of these "irrelevant and repetitive comments", as I have shown above.
Post by Chris Smith
Since you have a tendency to make a lot of repetitive comments,
comments that are just contradictions without any real content or
reasons, and comments that are really only vicious character attacks,
it becomes more necessary to snip heavily in order to keep the thread
manageable.
You have very bad judgment of what is 'irrelevant, repetitive' or
'character attacks'. In particular, if you really believe that I am
making "vicious charater attacks", then review the FAQ and Charter,
see if they fall under the categories of personal attack proscribed
there, and complain to the Moderator.

I'll let him explain to you why you are in error. In the meantime, I
will observe that despite your claim here, you have NOT "kept the
thread manageable". Not by a long shot. Your failure to do this is a
direct consequence of your bad judgment concerning what it
'irrelevant' etc.
Post by Chris Smith
In this case, we agree about the nature of marriage as a
contract/covenant. It isn't at issue.
Then this was all _another_ of your irrelevant distractions! For _now_
you say "it isn't at issue', but you _did_ dispute it. After all, you
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract! This is why I am
surpise that you take this position.
I believe you are misinterpreting the catechism
If you feel I've left something out that I shouldn't have, feel free
to quote it or bring it up again.
And I have done so. So don't snip it again, as you did before. And
don't expect to escape criticism for having snipped it in the first
place. You will not.
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Now back to the topic: you seem to be determined to deny that such
civil contracts are marriage at all. But then how will you
interpret RCCC sec. 1650, which calls a "civil union" not a valid
marriage ONLY in the case that a preceding marriage is still valid?
After all, if the "civil union" was not at least some kind of a
'marriage', then what would the transgression be? And why is this
particular transgression handled differently from adultery?
And few of the things _you_ say it does.
Post by Chris Smith
1. It clearly defines that civil marriage is *not* the same as real
marriage. This is an important point.
What are you talking about? It does no such thing. It is only
_remarriage_ that 1650 condemns as "not real marriage".
Post by Chris Smith
2. It points out that those who live as if they are married to someone
else (via a civil union) despite having an earlier marriage they are
neglecting (and with regard to which they are civilly divorced) are in a
state of sin.
You have changed the wording drastically to make it _look_ like the
RCCC supports you. But in fact, it does no such thing. For the RCCC,
_unlike_ you, never says the "new union" is not a "real marriage". It
never calls them living "as if married to someone else".

On the contrary: it quotes the words of Christ Himself referring to
such a situation as "marries another (Mk 10:11-12)".
Post by Chris Smith
It describes certain ecclesiastical consequences that apply so long
as they persist in that sin. It also provides that they may repent
of this sin and be restored to right relationship with God if they
make a commitment to live "in complete continence"
Close, but not quite. It _only_ opens to them the Sacrament of
Penance, NOT the other Sacraments. To be restored to Communion, they
have to undo the "situation that objectively contravenes God's law".

Strangely, 1650 does not say exactly how to do this, so it does not
explicitly preclude your interpetation. But it does NOT actually say
they can continue to live together in chastity, nor keep up their
civil union in any other way.
Post by Chris Smith
(a word which has two meanings; in this case, it means abstinence
from sexual activity, rather than the ability to avoid urination),
and thus no longer live in sin. In other words, their adultery is
the sin, not their civil marriage status. If they cease to commit
adultery, then the Church recognizes there there may be a valid
reason to continue living in a legal state of marriage, especially if
there are children in the picture.
1650 says NONE of this. And which sense of 'abstinence' is meant is
obvious. So stop wasting other people's time on things like this.
Post by Chris Smith
This section does not lay down all the requirements for determination
of whether a civil marriage is or is not valid; it only mentions one
such invalidating factor.
True, but whoever said otherwise? I didn't. So why are you distracting
with this irrelevant trivia? All this has NOTHING to do with whether
or not a civil marriage, as a contract, is the contract the Catechism
refers to in 1601, 1624-25.

Why, in fact, if anyone did say otherwise, it was you, in this very
post! For you claimed that "It clearly defines that civil marriage is
*not* the same as real marriage."

But as I already pointed out, it does no such thing. As you now
finally admit, it gives only ONE invalidating factor, saying nothing
about others. So in a case where that one factor is absent, there is
NOTHING in 1650 to say that it is "not a real marriage".
Post by Chris Smith
Another important condition, for example, is mentioned in 1626. It
would be a mistake to interpret 1650 as saying that a marriage is
always valid unless there are previous marriages.
Since nobody every claim that it _was_ "always valid unless there are
previous marriages" you are off-topic again.
Post by Chris Smith
Why is it handled differently from adultery? It's mentioned
separately because it is a common problem.
That is an absurd answer. So _what_ if it is a "common problem"? Or
did you really mean to say that the two problems "adultery" and
"previously existing marriages" have a lot in common?

[snip]
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
But there are more hints: it also says, "God is the author of
marriage (RCCC 1603)". Do you really think that He is the author of
only _Christian_ marriage? Why shouldn't we see this as claiming
authorship of natural law marriage also? Or rather, of one kind of
marriage, which only after the Fall became divided into the lesser,
natural law marriage, and the greater Christian marriage?
Yes, I agree.
Finally!
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
And so now we can get to the problem with your position: the kind
of unholy "civil union" _you_ propose allowing, unlike a civil
union between one man and one woman, is a -radical- renunciation of
the goal of marriage. It is the -opposite- of what "is written into
the very nature of man and woman". But as the RCCC says, marriage
is instituted by God; it makes NO restriction of this statement to
_Church_ marriage. This is why the state allowing such "civil
unions" is much worse than the state allowing all the other kinds
of 'marriage' that were disallowed in Christian marriage.
The last part of this doesn't follow. We agree up to the point of
there being requirements for natural law marriage that exclude its
being possible between a homosexual couple.
And it was like pulling teeth to get you to admit to this step! What
will it be like to get you to agree to the next?
Post by Chris Smith
The step from there to civil unions is missing.
No, it is not missing. But it was covered only lightly and in
passing. It is implied by the use of the word 'marriage', and the fact
that "marriage is instituted by God." There is NOTHING in the RCCC to
limit 'marriage' in that sentence to "Christian marriage" or even to
"natural law marriage". I claim that the Christian Tradition teaches
that ALL marriage is instituted by God, and that this is reflected, if
only dimly, in the RCCC.

This is exactly why we must not call the disastrous union proposed by
a few in this NG 'marriage'. Nor should the state feel obligated to
offer them any of its privileges. To do so is to encourage yet another
form of mockery of what God has instituted.

It amazes me that you think a good Catholic can encourage such mockery in any
way.
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Subducat se sibi ut haereat Deo
Quidquid boni habet tribuat illi a quo factus est
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shegeek72
2006-08-25 05:44:49 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
I've removed the page of unmitigated insults
"Unmitigated insults"? Are you serious? If you are, then I have to
believe you do not understand what the word 'unmitigated' even MEANS.
un=B7mit=B7i=B7gat=B7ed

1. Not diminished or moderated in intensity or severity; unrelieved:
unmitigated suffering.
2. Without qualification or exception; absolute: an unmitigated lie.

Come on, Matthew. You insult people all the time in this ng for
disagreeing with you. Do I have to quote you?

Or is civility not in your personality?

Tara
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http://users4.ev1.net/~taragem
Matthew Johnson
2006-08-28 02:31:09 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
I've removed the page of unmitigated insults
"Unmitigated insults"? Are you serious? If you are, then I have to
believe you do not understand what the word 'unmitigated' even MEANS.
un=B7mit=B7i=B7gat=B7ed
unmitigated suffering.
2. Without qualification or exception; absolute: an unmitigated lie.
Come on, Matthew. You insult people all the time in this ng for
disagreeing with you. Do I have to quote you?
Try it. You will only make a fool of yourself. If for no other reason, because
even if what you say were true, that would STILL not meet the definition of
'unmitigated'. For it is simply not true that I "insult without qualification
aor exception".

Why, most of the time, when people complain (as you do) of being 'insulted', it
is because they took offense at being corrected. But they have no right to take
offense at this (Prv 12:1). If you don't want to be corrected, if you don't want
to be criticized for teaching deception in this NG, then DO NOT post deception
here. It is that simple.
Post by shegeek72
Or is civility not in your personality?
How ironic that you should make th iaccusation. For you have not been civil at
all. Clean your finger before you point at my spots.
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Subducat se sibi ut haereat Deo
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shegeek72
2006-08-29 03:35:06 UTC
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Post by Matthew Johnson
Why, most of the time, when people complain (as you do) of being 'insulted'
One can disagree with someone without insults.

Tara
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Chris Smith
2006-08-29 03:35:07 UTC
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[Insults removed again...]
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
It's true that marriage under natural law is recognized as valid by the
Church.
Finally, you admit this.
Yes, I agree with you on this, and in fact never denied it. Apparently
we misunderstood each other before.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Then Old Testament polygamy was _not_ "natural law marriage"? Then
what was it? Will you deny that it was 'valid'? Also, _some_ of the
requirement you mention have also been required for civil marriages by
certain states.
I have no informed opinion on whether polygamous marriage in the time
prior to Christ was valid marriage. Certainly the Church does not
recognize polygamous marriage as being valid today, even under natural
law. If the Church did recognize this, then it would not require that
those who were divorced and remarried prior to becoming Catholic receive
a declaration of nullity on prior marriages before their first marriage
is presumed to be valid. The Church does require this, and therefore
denies the possibility that two marriages can be valid at once under
natural law.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Which 'it'? ARE you claiming that there exists sacramental marriage
that is not between Christians?
No. "It" = natural law, in the sentence above. Of course there are no
valid sacraments among the unbaptized.
Post by Matthew Johnson
You are evading again. You are still
silent about the differentiae.
What exactly do you want? Declarations of nullity are denied to those
who are civilly divorced whenever the church fails to find a cause for
the declaration of nullity. It's a negative condition; I can't list all
possible cases in which this would occur, because there are an infinite
number of them. The important point is that the Church did not find
cause to issue a declaration of nullity, and presumes the marriage to be
valid. The civil divorce does not constitute a cause for declaration of
nullity; it generally influences the case in no way whatsoever, although
there are certainly circumstances in which a very fast divorce or the
circumstances leading to the divorce may be relevant in terms of the
validity of consent, intention to permanency or fidelity, etc.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Governments do typically recognize some form of marriage, and the
laws are typically not terribly unjust.
And if they are "not terribly unjust", then there WILL be overlap with
"natural law marriage". For it is in the state's interest to encourge
the same things the Church encourages, within limits.
There will be overlap, of course, but not because the state's interest
is to encourage the same things as the Church. There is overlap because
there's clearly no compelling interest to the state in restricting the
legal institution of marriage, and therefore the state does recognize
most marriages. Sometimes, though, this is violated. Unjust
restrictions are placed on marriage due to race, socio-economic or
religious class, etc. In that case, the state excludes marriages that
the Church recognizes. As far as I can tell this is always an
injustice, but it does happen.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
As such, married Christians are expected to abide by those laws and
become recognized as a married couple under the law. This doesn't
affect the validity of their marriage, though. It's purely a matter
of the licity of marriage, not the validity.
How can it be valid if it is not licit?
Lots of things are valid but not licit. Why do you think otherwise?
Perhaps I could answer your question if I knew where you are coming
from.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
When it is impossible or infeasible, the requirement is waived.
But ONLY then? And who defines what is 'infeasible'?
The local ordinary has the sole authority to grant this dispensation.
For a Latin Rite diocese, the local ordinary is the Bishop. I am not
sufficiently familiar with the eastern canons to answer that question
for an Eastern Rite diocese.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Unfortunately, not always. And it doesn't do much good to do it with
"excruciating care" if the reader forgets that he is, after all,
reading a tranlsation, since no translation is perfect. That is _why_
we use the commentary of experts at exegesis and hermeneutics,
especially the commentary of the Fathers, such as Augustine.
Fine. Augustine doesn't agree with you either, as we already saw.
Post by Matthew Johnson
You miss the point. I never said that 'obey' was the better
word. Rather, what I said what that the notion of 'subjection'
_includes_ obedience.
And I'm waiting for a reason to believe that. Certainly being subject
to someone means obeying them to an extent. It means obeying when there
is no reason to do otherwise, and granting the benefit of the doubt when
there may appear to be such a reason. There is, however, a requirement
of justice that one not be complicit in actions that are immoral. This
is why Christians in the first century were justified in continuing to
worship God despite restrictions against this. It is also why Catholic
Bishops in the U.S. granted standing dispensations to allow interracial
marriages when they were still illegal in various states.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Therefore he that resisteth the power, withstandeth the
ordinance of God: and they that withstand shall receive to
themselves judgment. (Rom 13:2 RV)
This again speaks to whether Christians ought to resist others having
power over them, not to whether they ought to obey every command that
is given.
And what do you _think_ the authorities use this power for? To enforce
obedience to the laws they pass. Paul was explicit about this in the
following verses.
I'm staring at the following verses now. They don't say this. Paul
says that authorities will approve good conduct and stop bad conduct.
He lists specific ways in which we are to fulfill his command: by paying
taxes and other fees, and by giving honor and respect to our leaders.
There is no explicit (nor implicit) command to obey in all things.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Why, he even speaks as if the authority could not
use his power for anything _but_ good!
But we know that's not true, so clearly you are misinterpreting
something...
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
Do waht is good, and you will have prase from it [authority]; And
if not from it, then throught it. For either if you do what is
just, then just authority will prase you; or you who do justice
will be crowned by God even if the unjust authorty condemns
you. But you must hold on to righteousness through this, you must
live well.
It says to do JUSTICE (not blind obedience), and you will be crowned
by God even if the unjust authority condems you for it.
Aha! So now it is the word 'justice' you do not understand! When
Augustine says 'justice' here, the sense of the word is similar to
that in the name for the branch of government here in the US, 'Justice
department'. That is, 'justice' means what the justice department says
it is, NOT just what some abstract standard says.
No, that's not what is meant. If it were, then "unjust authority" would
be nonsense. We don't need to look for textual evidence, though. The
meaning of justice in scripture and among early Christian writings is
clear and well recognized, and it doesn't mean enforcing the laws.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Really, this should not be so hard for you to understand. It is
related to the old idea of "the social contract", which says that we
obey the laws set up by society's authorities, we do NOT judge the
laws ourselves, deciding which we will obey and which we will not.
I don't know whose idea of a social contract you are representing there.
Certainly not Hobbes, or any of his successors that I've read. Hobbes,
in fact, believed in anyone's right to violate the social contract if
they felt like it. He simply argued that upholding the contract was in
everyone's own self-interest. If we apply a Christian morality to
Hobbes' contract, then we can no longer make that decision on self-
interest, but rather also on the will of God, which is expressed by the
Church.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Paul uses the nearly same words, just past the section you quoted
earlier in this thread;
No, he does not.
You're right. That was the commentary I was reading, not the actual
words of Paul. My mistake.
Post by Matthew Johnson
But this doesn't make any sense. You are still running away from the
meaning of "subject to authority". And BTW: you inserted another word
not in the text, 'rightful'.
Feel free to ignore it. It was of no consequence for our discussion.
Post by Matthew Johnson
If you keep on tampering with the text like this, expect far worse
punishment than my alleged "character attacks".
Excuse me? You really need to get a hold of yourself.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Not really. There are exceptions to lots of things. That is WHY people
say, "there's an exception to every rule".
So, in other words, Paul did not mean complete obedience. It is good
that you recognize this. With this in mind, perhaps you can give actual
reasons why you believe that Romans 13 requires obedience to, for
example, a restriction on interracial marriage. (We can even simplify
and assume that a couple is actually applying for a marriage
certificate; that way, it's clear that a law is being violated, and the
resulting consideration can be made simpler.) We does Romans 13 forbid
this, when it didn't forbid Christian worship in Rome?

Remember, we've already established that Romans 13 doesn't require
complete obedience.
Post by Matthew Johnson
attempting to get tax benefits you are not qualified for is a
violation of a _different_ law, one that we do not dispute states have
a right to expect obedience to.
I hoped that by giving an example of something that *would* be a
violation of law, it might be made clear that marriage is not. Becoming
married in a Church is *not* a violation of laws that govern the
government's recognition of marriage. Applying for a marriage
certificate is. Filing a joint tax return is. Participating in or
performing a religious ceremony is not.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
What I disagree with is whether the government ought to be enforcing
this. I see nothing in the catechism suggesting that it should.
Again: one thing at a time! If you knock it off with the relevant
digressions, we will get there.
We are already there. Either discuss it, or don't. Your choice.
Post by Matthew Johnson
For that matter, it is your Catholic church that has, for _centuries_
fought for natural law to be better expressed in the actual laws
(a.k.a. 'positive law')of states. That is WHY Aquinas said that
"positive law that violates natural law is not true law"; that is WHY
Jesuit colleges have Law Faculties. So it surprises me that you need
proof that such a thing is good to do.
There is a clear difference between fighting for laws that do not
violate natural law, and laws that enforce natural law. The first is
always a valid and important undertaking. The second is not necessarily
justified.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
They clearly demonstrate that *whatever* marriage is, it is not the
same thing as the legal institution. If they were the same thing, it
would be impossible to have one but not the other. That is possible,
so they are not the same. It's really very simple.
Again, you are resorting to irrelevant distraction. I never said they
_were_ the same.
Great, then we agree. You have certainly gone to a lot of trouble to
argue over something we agree about.
Post by Matthew Johnson
What I said was that even a civil marriage is a
'marriage' in some sense, and what I am trying to get you to realize
is that the language of the RCCC implies that marriage in this sense
too, is instituted by God.
The CCC doesn't say this, so you'll have a tough time convincing me that
it does. However, if you like to try, then a good step would be to
point out where it does. You have already tried once, but in fact you
managed to point out the one section of the CCC that most clearly denies
your position, in that it is excruciatingly careful to describe someone
who invalidly contracts a legal marriage as being in a "civil union"
rather than a marriage. It then points out precisely how that civil
union is irrelevant to the position of the Church, by explaining that
the Church denies full participation in the sacraments and liturgical
responsibilities in the basis of sexual activity, and not on the basis
of the civil union.

It would be hard for you to do worse than to try to support your opinion
by pointing out section 1650.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
I agree that marriage has a contractual nature. (The catechism uses
"covenant".)
That is the English translation. The French, Spanish and Latin do not
follow it, but use a word with a much stronger implication of
'contract' (e.g. 'foedus'). And it is the civil authority that decides
contract law.
You are making an unjustified leap here. The catechism describes
marriage as a contract in the sense that it is a consensual agreement
between two people. There is no implication that it is subject to
adjudication by civil courts.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
The question is whether the contract is the same as legal marriage
(it isn't)
Why are you so sure of this? Clearly that depends on how the state
defines "legal marriage"; in some states, it _is_ the contract.
You just acknowledged above that is possible to have one or the other of
civil marriage versus natural law marriage without the other. Since
that is true, the two cannot possibly the same thing. We could move on
with much of the conversation if you'd decide what you believe here.

[More insults removed.]
Post by Matthew Johnson
For _now_
you say "it isn't at issue', but you _did_ dispute it. After all, you
Post by Chris Smith
Post by Matthew Johnson
But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract! This is why I am
surpise that you take this position.
I believe you are misinterpreting the catechism
You said "But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract!" That was a
false statement. The CCC calls marriage a covenant, but not the same
contract as the civil union. That is, it is contractual, but it is not
"this" contract [by which was meant the civil union]. Establishing that
marriage has a contractual nature is obviously not sufficient to
establish that it is identical to any specific other contract.
Furthermore, we agreed earlier that it's possible to have one without
the other, with clearly demonstrates that they are not the same thing.
(I feel like a broken record here.)

The CCC doesn't identify marriage with a civil union; rather it
carefully distinguishes between the two, while at the same time pointing
out that marriage is a covenant between two people and God.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
1. It clearly defines that civil marriage is *not* the same as real
marriage. This is an important point.
What are you talking about? It does no such thing. It is only
_remarriage_ that 1650 condemns as "not real marriage".
A civil marriage is contracted whether or not either party is previously
married (assuming they were divorced -- again a civil action). Real
marriage is not. Therefore, they aren't the same.

The rest of this hinges around the usual confusion that results from the
double-usage of the word "marriage". I'll merely point out that the
section begins by describing the new legal relationship as a "civil
divorce" and "new civil unions", with the clear intent to exclude an
interpretation that these are the same as marriage. The remainder of
the passage should be interpreted accordingly.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
It describes certain ecclesiastical consequences that apply so long
as they persist in that sin. It also provides that they may repent
of this sin and be restored to right relationship with God if they
make a commitment to live "in complete continence"
Close, but not quite. It _only_ opens to them the Sacrament of
Penance, NOT the other Sacraments. To be restored to Communion, they
have to undo the "situation that objectively contravenes God's law".
Since they have sinned, it is proper that penance preceeds receiving
communion or participating in certain roles of the liturgy. That is the
same for anyone in grave sin. Read the section again. Reconciliation
is granted *through* the sacrament of penance, just as it always is, but
reconciliation is indeed granted. Nothing so unusual is going on here
as allowing someone to confession but not to communion. That would
never happen; it is a core teaching of the Church that no moral
culpability for sin remains after a valid confession, and Church
obviously would not allow anyone to go to confession when they know it
would be invalid.

In fact, getting back to practice instead of just the catechism,
Eucharist is offered to those who have civil marriages to someone other
than their true spouse, so long as they avoid sin (including sexual
relations). This is a fairly common resolution to this problem. It
happens every day.
Post by Matthew Johnson
True, but whoever said otherwise? I didn't. So why are you distracting
with this irrelevant trivia? All this has NOTHING to do with whether
or not a civil marriage, as a contract, is the contract the Catechism
refers to in 1601, 1624-25.
Why, in fact, if anyone did say otherwise, it was you, in this very
post! For you claimed that "It clearly defines that civil marriage is
*not* the same as real marriage."
But as I already pointed out, it does no such thing. As you now
finally admit, it gives only ONE invalidating factor, saying nothing
about others. So in a case where that one factor is absent, there is
NOTHING in 1650 to say that it is "not a real marriage".
You seem to be missing the simple fact that one invalidating factor is
enough to establish that they are not the same contract. If they are
both the same contract, then it would logically be impossible to validly
enter one but not the other. (I wonder how many times I've said that
now.)

That's not to say that there are no other such conditions. There are.
They aren't needed, though, to demonstrate that the contracts are
different.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Post by Chris Smith
Why is it handled differently from adultery? It's mentioned
separately because it is a common problem.
That is an absurd answer.
Yet correct.
Post by Matthew Johnson
So _what_ if it is a "common problem"? Or
did you really mean to say that the two problems "adultery" and
"previously existing marriages" have a lot in common?
If there are sexual relations in the current civil union, then yes. In
fact, they are the same problem, except that one is more specific than
the other.
--
Chris Smith
Matthew Johnson
2006-09-05 01:23:00 UTC
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[Insults removed again...]
You can only hide behind this for so long, Chris.
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It's true that marriage under natural law is recognized as valid by the
Church.
Finally, you admit this.
Yes, I agree with you on this, and in fact never denied it. Apparently
we misunderstood each other before.
And since you admit below that you expressed yourself poorly on a
related topic, you should think about admitting the same thing here.
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Post by Matthew Johnson
Then Old Testament polygamy was _not_ "natural law marriage"? Then
what was it? Will you deny that it was 'valid'? Also, _some_ of the
requirement you mention have also been required for civil marriages by
certain states.
I have no informed opinion on whether polygamous marriage in the time
prior to Christ was valid marriage.
Then you need to read the Catechism more closely. Or read Augustine's
Confessions, where he treats this topic. Abraham's marriage to Rachel
and Leah were _both_ valid.
Post by Chris Smith
Certainly the Church does not recognize polygamous marriage as being
valid today, even under natural law.
That is because polygamy IS a deviation from natural law marriage. But
as Augustine pointed out, it was a deviation _permitted_ by the Old
Testment dispensation/economy, i.e., permitted by _divine_ permission.
Post by Chris Smith
If the Church did recognize this, then it would not require that
those who were divorced and remarried prior to becoming Catholic
receive a declaration of nullity on prior marriages before their
first marriage is presumed to be valid.
But this supports another point I was trying to explain to you, and
you are still resisting: there _is_ such a thing as valid marriage
outside the Church. Otherwise there would be no need for this
'declaration of nullity', since it would _automatically_ be null.

This is why you are wrong to claim that every "civil union" is not a
"real marriage".
Post by Chris Smith
The Church does require this, and therefore denies the
possibility that two marriages can be valid at once under natural
law.
Post by Matthew Johnson
Which 'it'? ARE you claiming that there exists sacramental marriage
that is not between Christians?
No. "It" = natural law, in the sentence above. Of course there are no
valid sacraments among the unbaptized.
But what kind of 'marriage' can there be without any sacrament at all?
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Post by Matthew Johnson
You are evading again. You are still silent about the differentiae.
What exactly do you want?
That is clear enough. I want you to treat the differentiae. But you
are silent about them, just as you were in your previous posts.
Post by Chris Smith
Declarations of nullity are denied to those who are civilly divorced
whenever the church fails to find a cause for the declaration of
nullity. It's a negative condition; I can't list all possible cases
in which this would occur, because there are an infinite number of
them.
So you can't list the possible cases here, yet you whine when I do not
list all the possible exceptions to the commandment to obey the law
(implicit in Rom 13:1)? Give up the double-standard, Chris.

[snip]
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Post by Matthew Johnson
And if they are "not terribly unjust", then there WILL be overlap with
"natural law marriage". For it is in the state's interest to encourge
the same things the Church encourages, within limits.
There will be overlap, of course, but not because the state's interest
is to encourage the same things as the Church.
When will you learn to respond to what was written? Why must you
insist on twisting my words instead? I never said that it was the
state's interest to encourage ALL the same things as the Church.
Post by Chris Smith
There is overlap because there's clearly no compelling interest to
the state in restricting the legal institution of marriage,
Why are you so sure of this? Many states have disagreed with you
throughout history. Even the relatively liberal US still restricts
polygamous marriages, allowing only _serial_ polygamy.
Post by Chris Smith
and therefore the state does recognize most marriages. Sometimes,
though, this is violated.
No doubt. But that is no justification for your abrupt change of topic
below.
Post by Chris Smith
Unjust restrictions are placed on marriage
This is the abrupt change: you -were- talking about "when the state
recognizes marriage", but now you are talking about something MUCH
more specific, i.e., _unjust_ restrictions.

The reason I have to point this out is that it LOOKS like you are
trying to pull the wool over our eyes, and pretend that the two are
the same. They are not.
Post by Chris Smith
due to race, socio-economic or religious class, etc.
And why are you grouping _these_ three together? They are very
different, you know. Grouping together such very different things into
one category is a classic fallacy.

Besides: how can it be unjust for the _state_ to restrict marriage
based on religious class when your own Church does it? An RC cannot
marry a non-Christian in the Church.
Post by Chris Smith
In that case, the state excludes marriages that the Church
recognizes. As far as I can tell this is always an injustice, but it
does happen.
But why are you simply repeating your one and the same conclusion over
and over without any evidence or discussion? This conclusion, that
"this is always an injustice" is the VERY topic under dispute here.
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As such, married Christians are expected to abide by those laws
and become recognized as a married couple under the law. This
doesn't affect the validity of their marriage, though. It's
purely a matter of the licity of marriage, not the validity.
How can it be valid if it is not licit?
Lots of things are valid but not licit. Why do you think otherwise?
Look at the definitions of the words. Dictionary. com shows:

valid:

1.sound; just; well-founded: a valid reason.
2.producing the desired result; effective: a valid antidote for gloom.
3.having force, weight, or cogency; authoritative.

4. legally sound, effective, or binding; having legal force: a valid
contract.

5. Logic. (of an argument) so constructed that if the premises are
jointly asserted, the conclusion cannot be denied without
contradiction.

6. Archaic. robust; well; healthy.

licit:

legal; lawful; legitimate; permissible.

Note the huge overlap between valid(4) and licit. Note also that most
of the other senses for 'valid' are clearly out of context in your
discussion of valid/licit marriage.

Finally, note also that my original challenge to you was to prove your
point from the RCCC: but it uses only ONE of these terms, 'valid'
marriage. The word 'licit' does not even OCCUR in 1601-1666.
Post by Chris Smith
Perhaps I could answer your question if I knew where you are coming
from.
You would know where I am coming from if you set aside a moral
theology that sounds like it came from Martin Luther King, and went
back to that described by Augustine in the Enchiridion.
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When it is impossible or infeasible, the requirement is waived.
But ONLY then? And who defines what is 'infeasible'?
The local ordinary has the sole authority to grant this dispensation.
For a Latin Rite diocese, the local ordinary is the Bishop. I am not
sufficiently familiar with the eastern canons to answer that question
for an Eastern Rite diocese.
You answered the second question, but not the first. And even the
second was answered in a surprisingly verbose way.
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Unfortunately, not always. And it doesn't do much good to do it
with "excruciating care" if the reader forgets that he is, after
all, reading a tranlsation, since no translation is perfect. That
is _why_ we use the commentary of experts at exegesis and
hermeneutics, especially the commentary of the Fathers, such as
Augustine.
Fine. Augustine doesn't agree with you either, as we already saw.
No, that is not what _we_ saw. You have forgotten the great influence
of Plato on Augustine, and so you are misinterpreting Augustine's
words, missing the _clear_ references to Plato's theory of the duty of
obedience of the individual citizen to the state.

As I said before: the obedience demanded is pretty nearly
unconditional. You seem bound and determined to water down both
Augustine and Paul and make it quite conditional.
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Post by Matthew Johnson
You miss the point. I never said that 'obey' was the better
word. Rather, what I said what that the notion of 'subjection'
_includes_ obedience.
And I'm waiting for a reason to believe that.
You already have the reason. You are just being stubborn. Remember
that Augustine followed Plato's philosophy, and reread the
Augustine quote we discussed before. Remember what Plato said about the
high degree of obedience, pretty nearly unconditional, that he
described in the Crito, XII 50D.

Adams paraphrased it as:

Begin quote------------- The bargain was that you should obey us
without qualification, as our child and slave. Persuasion you might
bring to bear upon us, but not force.
End quote---------------
Post by Chris Smith
Certainly being subject to someone means obeying them to an extent.
And you struggle mightily to minimize that extent, FAR beyond what
Augustine would ever agree to.
Post by Chris Smith
It means obeying when there is no reason to do otherwise,
That is a proviso too vague to be worth anything.
Post by Chris Smith
and granting the benefit of the doubt when there may appear to be
such a reason.
No, it goes further than that. You have to have a VERY good
reason. Personal, individual judgment that such-and-such law is
'unjust' is NOT good enough.
Post by Chris Smith
There is, however, a requirement of justice that one not be complicit
in actions that are immoral.
But that 'requirement' does not automatically overrule the duty to
obedience. Otherwise, Paul would not have said, "he who resists
authority resists God's order (Rom 13:2)".

BTW: is this why some RC pharmacists are refusing to fill
subscriptions for birth control pills? This is an good example of how
NOT to encourage Christian values in society.
Post by Chris Smith
This is why Christians in the first century were justified in
continuing to worship God despite restrictions against this.
No, that is not why. Rather, this is one of the few exceptions to the
rule of unconditional obedience. But NOT because of some "requirement not
to be complicit in immoral actions".
Post by Chris Smith
It is also why Catholic Bishops in the U.S. granted standing
dispensations to allow interracial marriages when they were still
illegal in various states.
It amazes me that you can think these two cases are comparable, and
for the same reason. You merely _state_ that they are, you provide no
evidence. And your statement is VERY unconvincing to me, for reasons I
already gave you.
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Therefore he that resisteth the power, withstandeth the
ordinance of God: and they that withstand shall receive to
themselves judgment. (Rom 13:2 RV)
This again speaks to whether Christians ought to resist others having
power over them, not to whether they ought to obey every command that
is given.
And what do you _think_ the authorities use this power for? To enforce
obedience to the laws they pass. Paul was explicit about this in the
following verses.
I'm staring at the following verses now.
Don't 'stare'. READ. And _think_ about what 'to be subject' means.
Post by Chris Smith
They don't say this.
Yes, they do. Remember the ancient frame of reference, as I describe
elsewhere in this post.
Post by Chris Smith
Paul says that authorities will approve good conduct and stop bad
conduct.
True, he does. Now think about how sweeping a generalization he did or
did not mean this to be. Do you really think he forgot, for example,
his own legally authorized behavior of persecuting Christians?

Why, Augustine covers this very question in Exposition Quarumdam
Propositionum Ex Epistola Ad Romanos 66[74], where he says:

Begin quote----------------------
Quod autem ait: Necessitate subditi estote, ad hoc valet, ut
intellegamus, quia necesse est propter hanc vitam subditos nos esse
oportere, non resistentes, si quid illi auferre voluerint, in quod
sibi potestas data est, temporalibus rebus; quae quoniam transeunt
ideo et ista subiectio non in bonis quasi permansuris sed in
necessariis huic tempori constituenda est. Tamen quoniam dixit:
Necessitate subdidi estote, ne quis non integro animo et pura
dilectione subditus fieret huiusmodi potestatibus, addidit dicens: Non
solum propter iram sed etiam propter conscientiam, id est, non solum
ad iram evacuandam, quo potest etiam simulate fieri, sed ut in tua
conscientia certus sis illius dilectione te facere, cui subditus
fueris iussu Domini tui, qui omnes vult salvos fieri et in agnitionem
veritatis venire
End quote-------------------------

I am not going to take the time to translate all that, as long as you
keep showing that you do not read what is written. Find an English
translation yourself if you can. I will only summarize what I think is
most necessary, that he claims Paul is saying the civil authorities
have absolute authority over the _things of this world_, e.g., money
(hence the tax/tribute examples in Rom 13:6-7).

So then the question boils down to whether or not we think a marriage
is a "thing of this world". For a civil marriage, the answer should be
clear: it is YES.
Post by Chris Smith
He lists specific ways in which we are to fulfill his command: by paying
taxes and other fees, and by giving honor and respect to our leaders.
And pay attention to the phrasing of the 'list'. He -never- claimed it
was exhaustive; he -never- claimed this was the complete list of how
to "be subject to them in conscience (Rom 13:5)". These are only
_examples_ of what is implied by the commandment to be subject to
authority.
Post by Chris Smith
There is no explicit (nor implicit) command to obey in all things.
Yes, there is. It is in the very first verse, "let EVERY soul be
subject to higher powers (Rom 13:1)".

Again, "be subject to" _implies_ 'obey'. It does not allow exceptions
because the individual disagrees with the state. This WAS the frame of
reference in antiquity. This theme pops up not only in Plato (as I
already pointed out), but in Sophocles as well.
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Why, he even speaks as if the authority could not
use his power for anything _but_ good!
But we know that's not true, so clearly you are misinterpreting
something...
No, that does not follow. He really does speak as if the authority
could not use his power for anything but good. But this is not because
he really believes that is so, it is because that is off-topic; it is
not relevant to what he is trying to explain to the Roman
congregation.
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Do waht is good, and you will have prase from it [authority]; And
if not from it, then throught it. For either if you do what is
just, then just authority will prase you; or you who do justice
will be crowned by God even if the unjust authorty condemns
you. But you must hold on to righteousness through this, you must
live well.
It says to do JUSTICE (not blind obedience), and you will be crowned
by God even if the unjust authority condems you for it.
Aha! So now it is the word 'justice' you do not understand! When
Augustine says 'justice' here, the sense of the word is similar to
that in the name for the branch of government here in the US, 'Justice
department'. That is, 'justice' means what the justice department says
it is, NOT just what some abstract standard says.
No, that's not what is meant. If it were, then "unjust authority" would
be nonsense.
And you will find, if you read other passages of Augustine on this
topic, that he -does- often treat "unjust authority" as nonsense, as a
oxymoron. See, for example, De Libero Arbitrio I, 6.14, where he
explains how two apparently contradictory laws are both just.

Now Augustine does allow for exceptions, but only rarely. And even
when dealing with Roman authorities we would certainly call 'unjust'
today, he never accuses them of this. Not even when he criticizes the
Pope of Rome for interfering in the African Church.
Post by Chris Smith
We don't need to look for textual evidence, though. The meaning of
justice in scripture and among early Christian writings is clear and
well recognized, and it doesn't mean enforcing the laws.
"Clear and well recognized", you say? Then why are you still getting
it wrong? St. John Chrysostom also taught pretty nearly unconditional
obedience to civil authorities (see On the Statues). So did many
others whose names I cannot recall right now.
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Really, this should not be so hard for you to understand. It is
related to the old idea of "the social contract", which says that
we obey the laws set up by society's authorities, we do NOT judge
the laws ourselves, deciding which we will obey and which we will
not.
I don't know whose idea of a social contract you are representing there.
Certainly not Hobbes,
Of _course_ not. Hobbes was a Johnny-come-lately to the topic. You
should have been able to guess, since I mentioned Augustine, and it
_is_ "clear and well-recognized" how he was under Platonic influence.
Post by Chris Smith
or any of his successors that I've read.
Why are you reading only sources so late? Have you really never read
Aquinas on the topic?
Post by Chris Smith
Hobbes, in fact, believed in anyone's right to violate the social
contract if they felt like it.
That is already off topic, but no, Hobbes did not believe any such
thing. His position was more nuanced. He said that if an individual
_did_ presume to do this, he had better be ready to pay the price
exacted by the state, which could be a very harsh punishment indeed.
Post by Chris Smith
He simply argued that upholding the contract was in everyone's own
self-interest. If we apply a Christian morality to Hobbes' contract,
then we can no longer make that decision on self- interest, but
rather also on the will of God, which is expressed by the Church.
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Paul uses the nearly same words, just past the section you quoted
earlier in this thread;
No, he does not.
You're right. That was the commentary I was reading, not the actual
words of Paul. My mistake.
And are you still making such mistakes? It seems to me that you are.
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But this doesn't make any sense. You are still running away from
the meaning of "subject to authority". And BTW: you inserted
another word not in the text, 'rightful'.
Feel free to ignore it. It was of no consequence for our discussion.
Post by Matthew Johnson
If you keep on tampering with the text like this, expect far worse
punishment than my alleged "character attacks".
Excuse me? You really need to get a hold of yourself.
No, YOU need to learn to avoid tampering with the text, and avoid it
at all costs. Until you learn this, you will keep on repeating the
same mistakes, and falling into the same pits. Loudly proclaiming
nonsense and failing to understand even very _basic_ points in
Scripture.
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Not really. There are exceptions to lots of things. That is WHY people
say, "there's an exception to every rule".
So, in other words, Paul did not mean complete obedience. It is good
that you recognize this.
I said this a long time ago, way back on Aug 14. Look up "pretty
nearly unconditional" in Google. It is you who failed to understand,
and picked a fight.
Post by Chris Smith
With this in mind, perhaps you can give actual reasons why you
believe that Romans 13 requires obedience to, for example, a
restriction on interracial marriage. (We can even simplify and
assume that a couple is actually applying for a marriage certificate;
that way, it's clear that a law is being violated, and the resulting
consideration can be made simpler.)
Is it? Since when is it against the law to apply for a certificate
simply because you don't qualify?
Post by Chris Smith
We does Romans 13 forbid this, when it didn't forbid Christian
worship in Rome?
Remember, we've already established that Romans 13 doesn't require
complete obedience.
But you _still_ show no sign of recognizing what we have "already
established". When you do that, then we can get into your detailed
questions.
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attempting to get tax benefits you are not qualified for is a
violation of a _different_ law, one that we do not dispute states
have a right to expect obedience to.
I hoped that by giving an example of something that *would* be a
violation of law, it might be made clear that marriage is not.
Now that is a hope that is sure to be frustrated.
Post by Chris Smith
Becoming married in a Church is *not* a violation of laws that govern
the government's recognition of marriage.
That depends on the government. You really should refrain from such
sweeping generalizations. It is NOT conducive to reasonable
discussions.
Post by Chris Smith
Applying for a marriage certificate is.
What are you talking about? Applying for a certificate you do not
qualify for is NOT a violation of the law. Not in the US, at least, as
long as you do not commit perjury while filling out the form. The only
penalty is the non-refundable filing fee.
Post by Chris Smith
Filing a joint tax return is. Participating in or performing a
religious ceremony is not.
You miss the point. People do not "perform the religious ceremony"
without the intention of actually living as man and wife. If they do,
they are being fraudulent, which is a _different_ violation of the
law. And living as man and wife when you are not legally married
actually can be against the law, depending on what jurisdiction you
are in. In most US states, cohabitation itself is not a violation of
the law, but lying on your 1040 by claiming to be married (when you
are not legally married) IS a violation.
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What I disagree with is whether the government ought to be
enforcing this. I see nothing in the catechism suggesting that it
should.
Again: one thing at a time! If you knock it off with the relevant
digressions, we will get there.
We are already there.
No, we are not.
Post by Chris Smith
Either discuss it, or don't. Your choice.
My choice is to remind you of section 909 of the catechism. That is a
much more direct proof of my point than what I gave before.
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Post by Matthew Johnson
For that matter, it is your Catholic church that has, for
_centuries_ fought for natural law to be better expressed in the
actual laws (a.k.a. 'positive law')of states. That is WHY Aquinas
said that "positive law that violates natural law is not true law";
that is WHY Jesuit colleges have Law Faculties. So it surprises me
that you need proof that such a thing is good to do.
There is a clear difference between fighting for laws that do not
violate natural law, and laws that enforce natural law.
Why does this sound SO much like an answer to the wrong question? Ah,
I know. Because it is! Once again, you are not responding to what was
written. The Law faculties of Jesuit colleges do NOT confine
themselves to "fighting for laws that do not violate natural law,"
Post by Chris Smith
The first is always a valid and important undertaking. The second is
not necessarily justified.
You are still showing that you do not understand or agree with the
Catechism. Look at 909 again.
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They clearly demonstrate that *whatever* marriage is, it is not
the same thing as the legal institution. If they were the same
thing, it would be impossible to have one but not the other. That
is possible, so they are not the same. It's really very simple.
Again, you are resorting to irrelevant distraction. I never said
they _were_ the same.
Great, then we agree. You have certainly gone to a lot of trouble to
argue over something we agree about.
You are being too hasty. We do not agree. And it is you, not I who is
making so much trouble out of this. You do it by making careless
mistakes like quoting commentary when you thought you were quoting
Paul. You do it by ignoring the difference between "pretty nearly
unconditional" and "unconditional".

Such carelessness _always_ generates a lot of trouble. Slow down, stop
biting off more than you can chew.
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What I said was that even a civil marriage is a 'marriage' in some
sense, and what I am trying to get you to realize is that the
language of the RCCC implies that marriage in this sense too, is
instituted by God.
The CCC doesn't say this, so you'll have a tough time convincing me that
it does.
Yes, it does say it. I even gave you the section#s. You did NOT
address them in your response. Instead, you plunged off into a fantasy
distinction, NOWHERE in the Catechism, between 'licit' and 'valid'
marriage, and between 'civil union' and 'real marriage'.
Post by Chris Smith
However, if you like to try, then a good step would be to
point out where it does. You have already tried once, but in fact you
managed to point out the one section of the CCC that most clearly denies
your position, in that it is excruciatingly careful to describe someone
who invalidly contracts a legal marriage as being in a "civil union"
rather than a marriage.
You cannot claim that a "civil union" is not a marriage. There is
nothing in the Catechism to justify this. That is your 'eisegesis'.
Post by Chris Smith
It then points out precisely how that civil union is irrelevant to
the position of the Church,
No, it does no such thing. Nor can it, as long as it does as you
yourself admit above, recognizing the need to study whether or not a
declaration of nullity is possible for a previous marriage of a Catholic
convert.
Post by Chris Smith
by explaining that the Church denies full participation in the
sacraments and liturgical responsibilities in the basis of sexual
activity, and not on the basis of the civil union.
It would be hard for you to do worse than to try to support your opinion
by pointing out section 1650.
Again, you continue to repeat this fiction only because you read
_into_ the text a distinction that is NOT there, namely, between
"civil union" and "real marriage". There is NOTHING in 1650 to
contradict the assertion that civil union is or can be a natural law
marriage.
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I agree that marriage has a contractual nature. (The catechism uses
"covenant".)
That is the English translation. The French, Spanish and Latin do not
follow it, but use a word with a much stronger implication of
'contract' (e.g. 'foedus'). And it is the civil authority that decides
contract law.
You are making an unjustified leap here. The catechism describes
marriage as a contract in the sense that it is a consensual agreement
between two people. There is no implication that it is subject to
adjudication by civil courts.
You have missed the point. Contracts are governed by Contract Law. If
I make a contract, then it is governed by the contract law of the
relevant jurisdiction.

Now as it so happens, in the US, we do not apply Contract Law, because
a contract requires monetary consideration, which we do not usually
have in US marriages. India may still have doweries, but we only have
expensive engagement rings;)

But it is still subject to civil law.
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The question is whether the contract is the same as legal marriage
(it isn't)
Why are you so sure of this? Clearly that depends on how the state
defines "legal marriage"; in some states, it _is_ the contract.
You just acknowledged above that is possible to have one or the other of
civil marriage versus natural law marriage without the other.
What -are- you talking about?
Post by Chris Smith
Since that is true, the two cannot possibly the same thing. We could
move on with much of the conversation if you'd decide what you
believe here.
Not true. One category can be a proper subset of the other.
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[More insults removed.]
Again, you can't keep hiding behind this forever.
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For _now_ you say "it isn't at issue', but you _did_ dispute
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But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract! This is why I
am surpise that you take this position.
I believe you are misinterpreting the catechism
You said "But the Catechism _calls_ marriage this contract!" That was a
false statement.
No, it is not.
Post by Chris Smith
The CCC calls marriage a covenant, but not the same contract as the
civil union. That is, it is contractual, but it is not "this"
contract [by which was meant the civil union]. Establishing that
marriage has a contractual nature is obviously not sufficient to
establish that it is identical to any specific other contract.
You are equivocating. When the RCCC calls marriage a covenant, it does
NOT restrict the assertion to _Church_ marriages. On the contrary: it
is discussing marriage before the Fall (see, for example 1601, 1660),
from which _all_ marriage derives its nature, however imperfectly.

I pointed this out to you before, but where is your acknowledgment of
it?

ALL marriage is a 'covenant'. What is unique to Christian marriage is
that it is also a sacrament.

BTW: I never said it was "identical to any specific other
contract". Where did you get this red herring?
Post by Chris Smith
Furthermore, we agreed earlier that it's possible to have one without
the other, with clearly demonstrates that they are not the same
thing. (I feel like a broken record here.)
You sure do. Especially since your argument is very broken.
Post by Chris Smith
The CCC doesn't identify marriage with a civil union; rather it
carefully distinguishes between the two, while at the same time
pointing out that marriage is a covenant between two people and God.
That is NOT "distinguishing between the two". Just because it uses the
term "civil union" does NOT mean it "carefully distinguishes between
the two". Not by a LONG shot.

Why, you have done NOTHING to prove that the Catechism makes the same
distinction that you do.
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1. It clearly defines that civil marriage is *not* the same as real
marriage. This is an important point.
What are you talking about? It does no such thing. It is only
_remarriage_ that 1650 condemns as "not real marriage".
A civil marriage is contracted whether or not either party is
previously married (assuming they were divorced -- again a civil
action). Real marriage is not. Therefore, they aren't the same.
No, that does not follow. For the RCCC NEVER calls civil marriage "not
real marriage". YOU do that. But as I said before, you cannot justify
this based on the RCCC.
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The rest of this hinges around the usual confusion that results from the
double-usage of the word "marriage".
A confusion you deepen by talking about "real marriage" where the RCCC
does no such thing.
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I'll merely point out that the section begins by describing the new
legal relationship as a "civil divorce" and "new civil unions", with
the clear intent to exclude an interpretation that these are the same
as marriage.
No. This is FAR from 'clear'. What distinction is intended is not
clearly stated at all. I claim that it is NOT what you say at
all. Rather, it is only intended to distinguish between civil marriage
and Church marriage, i.e. Christian marriage. WITHOUT denying the
possibility of "real marriage" among civil unions.
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The remainder of the passage should be interpreted accordingly.
No, rather, it should not be interpreted your way at all.
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It describes certain ecclesiastical consequences that apply so
long as they persist in that sin. It also provides that they may
repent of this sin and be restored to right relationship with God
if they make a commitment to live "in complete continence"
Close, but not quite. It _only_ opens to them the Sacrament of
Penance, NOT the other Sacraments. To be restored to Communion,
they have to undo the "situation that objectively contravenes God's
law".
Since they have sinned, it is proper that penance preceeds receiving
communion or participating in certain roles of the liturgy.
But this is NOT what you said. You said it opens to them the
Sacraments in general, without any qualification.
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That is the same for anyone in grave sin. Read the section again.
Reconciliation is granted *through* the sacrament of penance, just as
it always is, but reconciliation is indeed granted. Nothing so
unusual is going on here as allowing someone to confession but not to
communion. That would never happen; it is a core teaching of the
Church that no moral culpability for sin remains after a valid
confession, and Church obviously would not allow anyone to go to
confession when they know it would be invalid.
You don't know the canons very well. It has been the practice since
long before the Great Schism to admit certain penitents back to the
Church by confession and chrismation, but still deny them communion
until their deathbed. This has been the rule for centuries, for
example, for those who apostasize to Islam and then repent.
Post by Chris Smith
In fact, getting back to practice instead of just the catechism,
Eucharist is offered to those who have civil marriages to someone
other than their true spouse, so long as they avoid sin (including
sexual relations). This is a fairly common resolution to this
problem. It happens every day.
"Every day", you say? Now that has got to be an exaggeration. Or are
these couples you mention no longer living with each other?
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True, but whoever said otherwise? I didn't. So why are you
distracting with this irrelevant trivia? All this has NOTHING to do
with whether or not a civil marriage, as a contract, is the
contract the Catechism refers to in 1601, 1624-25.
Why, in fact, if anyone did say otherwise, it was you, in this very
post! For you claimed that "It clearly defines that civil marriage
is *not* the same as real marriage."
But as I already pointed out, it does no such thing. As you now
finally admit, it gives only ONE invalidating factor, saying
nothing about others. So in a case where that one factor is absent,
there is NOTHING in 1650 to say that it is "not a real marriage".
You seem to be missing the simple fact that one invalidating factor
is enough to establish that they are not the same contract.
I am not 'missing it'. It is not even true. You seem to have forgotten
that category one could be the proper subset of the other. In this
case, what you call "one invalidating factor" could be only a
differentia between the set and the subset.
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If they are both the same contract, then it would logically be
impossible to validly enter one but not the other. (I wonder how
many times I've said that now.)
Once was too many.
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That's not to say that there are no other such conditions. There
are. They aren't needed, though, to demonstrate that the contracts
are different.
You still need to consider the possibility you are hiding from: that
one category is a proper subset of the other, and that as a 'covenant'
or a 'contract', they are the same. Your "one invalidating factor"
does NOT rule out this possibility.
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Why is it handled differently from adultery? It's mentioned
separately because it is a common problem.
That is an absurd answer.
Yet correct.
No, it is not correct, as explained above.
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So _what_ if it is a "common problem"? Or did you really mean to
say that the two problems "adultery" and "previously existing
marriages" have a lot in common?
If there are sexual relations in the current civil union, then yes. In
fact, they are the same problem, except that one is more specific than
the other.
Finally, a recognition of the obvious difference between disjoint sets
and set with proper subset! Now if only you would recognize this
where it needs to be recognized! All marriage is a contract/covenant
(foedus in the RCCC), whether natural law, civil law or Church law
marriage.

Why you can't see this in RCCC 1601 and 1660 is a mystery to me. Why,
it is even a deeper mystery than the mystery of matrimony itself;)
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Subducat se sibi ut haereat Deo
Quidquid boni habet tribuat illi a quo factus est
(Sanctus Aurelius Augustinus, Ser. 96)
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