Post by b***@juno.comPost by B.G. KentB - and you've heard this where? please name sources.
http://www.jrsm.org/cgi/content/abstract/86/3/144
B - Very interesting...and from 1993. I have yet to see the same recently
done on people who use sufficient lubricants each time
they have anal sex. If a woman who does not produce enough moisture has
vaginal sex she too can damage her vagina if she does not use lubricants.
I would reckon this is more about being intelligent than in anal sex per
se.
I have read this article
from http://www.medicinenet.com/fecal_incontinence/article.htm
Bowel or fecal incontinence is the loss of voluntary control of stool, or
bowel movements. This condition can vary from being partial, in which a
person loses only a small amount of liquid waste, to complete, in which
the entire solid bowel movement cannot be controlled.
Bowel incontinence affects about 10% of the U.S. population. Both men and
women suffer from this problem, though it is more common in women because
of injury to the anal muscles or nerves that can occur during childbirth.
Bowel incontinence becomes more common with advancing age as the muscles
that control bowel movements (anal sphincter muscles) weaken.
Often, embarrassment and the stigma associated with incontinence prevent
people from seeking treatment, even when incontinence affects his or her
quality of life. Many people resort to altering their social and physical
activities, even their employment, to cope with the problem. In addition,
some people with bowel incontinence do not see a doctor because they just
don't realize that their problem can be effectively treated. It's
important to understand that bowel incontinence is not uncommon and can be
successfully treated.
What Causes Bowel Incontinence?
Normal control of bowel movements depends on proper functioning of the
colon and rectum, the muscles surrounding the anus (anal sphincter
muscles), the brain and the body's nerves (the nervous system), plus the
amount and consistency of waste products produced.
There are many causes of bowel incontinence, including:
Damage or injury to the anal sphincter muscles or the nerves surrounding
these muscles
Anal surgery for another condition
Certain medications, such as antibiotics or Neurontin
Improper diet
Radiation treatment to the lower pelvic region
Chemotherapy
Stroke
Conditions associated with chronic diarrhea or constipation
Systemic (whole-body) diseases such as diabetes or scleroderma
Spinal cord damage
Note it says nothing about anal sex.
But Lesbianism is harmful for different reasons,
Post by b***@juno.comsuch as breast cancer is higher in lesbians.
B - this has nothing to do with lesbianism..this has to do with not having
children at an earlier age.
Post by b***@juno.comPost by B.G. KentB - She's not a lesbian...
Oh, really? And what gives you the right to inform her that she is not
a lesbian, when she says that she is?
B - Knowledge.
Post by b***@juno.comThat is your opinion, but the woman says otherwise. I would like to
know why you think you have the right to force her into your narrow
minded categories. She says that she "turned lesbian." So what gives
you the right to say that she is wrong?
B - my mouth and my ability like everyone to have an opinion.
Post by b***@juno.comFace it, Bren. YOU ARE WRONG! Just admit it. YOU ARE WRONG!
B - I will when I am.
Post by b***@juno.comPost by B.G. KentB - and what do you think of women who have never been treated badly by
men? I have a few friends that have always loved women..wanting sex with
just women and have even wonderful friendships with men. You can't just
pidgeon hole people.
First of all, I would like you to prove this statement.
B - That you can't pidgeonhole people? or that my friends are like this?
What are the parameters of proving it?
Post by b***@juno.comSecondly, even if it is true, they may have blocked out or repressed
negative childhood memories of men.
B - prove that.
Post by b***@juno.comPost by B.G. KentB - and yet there are gay male couples who have been together for
years..and lesbian couples..with families and children and even a big old
gay dog ......................that kinda shoots your theory out of the
water.
Just because people stay together a long time, has nothing whatsoever
to do with either my theory, or the fact of the matter.
B - Nor do facts it seems.
It is your opinion ....like mine.
Bren